Seriously, I'm clueless so I need help with this. I just started dating this girl and had seen her over the weekend. After I called her up to ask her out for a midweek dinner date she sounded surprised about being asked out midweek and then started laughing. Not a little tee hee or hee hee, but a full on, open mouth, turn your head to the sky laugh. But, she accepted.
Based on earlier dates it doesn't seem like she's that interested, but I wanted to have one more date just to talk it over with her and confirm her disinterest.
Did I get the confirmation I was looking for already? Why would a girl keep going out on dates if she wasn't interested?
2006-07-26 07:45:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might just want to see when your going to catch on to her not being interested I've done that so many times and the guys were clueless to it and I thought it was so funny so I wouldn't think about asking her out again if I were you!
2006-07-26 07:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by lil kisses 15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there could be 21 different situations here
1. She is happy and laughing is how she deals with the excitement?
2. She See's this as she is bored and has nothing else to do but a free date and dinner!
Be careful and if you feel odd move to something else if you are taking her to movies or dinner take her on a "no spending money on you " date and see how that goes!
Women can be players too!
2006-07-26 14:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by vcaring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she already went on dates with you and acted disinterested, that is probably all the confirmation you need. Sometimes girls go out with guys just for the fun of going out on a date and they don't want a relationship.
2006-07-26 14:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by raveo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a number of reasons that she could have laughed. Maybe she was watching something on the tv or a friend was over. I don't think that she'd keep going out on dates if she didn't like you unless she is just looking for a free meal.
2006-07-26 14:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she told you she's not interested, don't assume it. And don't read into her laughter; it could have been something as simple as a friend of hers saying earlier in the day "I bet he's going to ask you out again like tomorrow." Just go out with her, have fun, and be yourself. Sometimes it takes a couple dates before a girl becomes interested. (My now husband had to woo me for like a year.)
2006-07-26 14:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't go on dates if they aren't interested, at least a little interest in you as a friend or maybe more than a friend.
They do however laugh nervously. Hopefully thats all it was, or just that something you said struck her funny.
Enjoy the date and don't worry bout her interest in you, just show your interest in her.
2006-07-26 14:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free meal? ya, a little chuckle could be nervousness. but a full on belly laugh....
2006-07-26 14:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by t79a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she really likes the attention. Laughing?? hmm...that was just her being RUDE!!
call her back and tell her you will meet her at the restraunt...then don't show up!!
2006-07-26 14:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just a nervous reaction.
2006-07-26 14:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by NYman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly I would have hung up in mid laugh! LOL!! But....if your not sure, take her out and ask her about it!
2006-07-26 14:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋