im going out with this guy for a couple of months and when we first started going out he would kinda keep calling me and wanting me around him 24/7 and its getting worse he follows me everywhere i go and when he cant follow me he askes his friends to watch me he even comes to my house at 3 in the morning and he calls me every 5 minutes he wont leave me alone he dosent let me go out with my friends hes always driving by my house he makes me have sex with him even when i dont want to and he says if i break up with him or leave him hes gonna kill me i dunno what to do
2006-07-26 07:34:45 · 31 answers · asked by reem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your a teen so tell your parents and call the cops. This guy is an abusive person who needs help. Having sex with someone if you don't want is weak as well. That's on you.
Your only a victim if you allow it. This is compulsive, and abusive behavior. Get help now until something bad happens.
2006-07-26 07:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents or friends who are understanding that you are in a situation that u can't handle anymore; this guy is dangerous. if he is threatening you, and raping you (forcing u against ur will to have sex), that is VERY dangerous and you have to be careful. if you are under 18, he can get in serious trouble for messing w/ a minor (it's against the law). tell the police that u don't know what to do, and that he continues to threaten u. hopefully they will be able to give u steps on what and how to get rid of him, and if those don't work then the restraining orders, etc, come into effect. it's hard to do this alone, so make sure u have a supportive family/friends to help u get thru it. good luck, and be careful w/ who you get into relationships with~~
2006-07-26 07:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer... Break up with him now. It will only get worse!!! Don't give in to his treats. Make sure you tell a friend or a relative what is going on so if anything serious happens you have people that know what was going on, sounds to me he needs to see a councilor maybe he has had a bad relationship before you came along. Most people that are lies to or cheated on in previous relationships lose trust in people which reflects back on to the next relationship. Make your break now even if you have to change your Sim card
2006-07-26 07:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. If he says he will harm you, report him to the local police. No one should be treating you that way. When you break up with him, do it over the phone or in a public place. He will be less apt to harm you in public. If he follows you, harms you, or even acts like he is going to do something, call the police, and have a personal protection order placed on him. This is an unsafe situation and you need to get out of it. Forcing you to have sex with him, regardless if he is your boyfriend, IS RAPE!!!
2006-07-26 07:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First break off with him
Try to get any support you can have(Brother, Friend) anyone
I think you trusted him a little too fast. But anyway its never late
If you dont have a brother or boyfriend and you think he is dangerous then talk to your father about this. I know you may think i m stupid but i dont see any other way out for you.
You want to end the relationship dont you
2006-07-26 07:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get adult support...your parents or some other adult you trust and confront him...tell him you no longer want to see him because he is controlling your life and threatening your life...none of which is normal in a healthy relationship!!! Let him know that if he continues to follow you/stalk you/call you that you will have no choice but to have the police involved. Good luck.
2006-07-26 07:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one you need to tell your father, nobody messes with daddy's little girl, and then you should get a restraining order, and just call him from another number oneday and tell you both are through and he can't come within 200 yards of you or anything that you own or he will become somebody's new girlfriend, this is in all seriousness you need to do this.
2006-07-26 07:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this situation. Were you his first or something?
If you are younger you should talk to you parents about it. Involve a male figure or something. This dude has insecurity issues. You should leave him alone, but do it in a subtle way if you can.
2006-07-26 07:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, dont let him in, change your number. If he pursues it call the police and get a restraining order.
2006-07-26 07:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop by your local police department and file a report and then a personal order of protection.
2006-07-26 07:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by buggyroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋