what do you think is the right timing for a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship to go into foreplay?

Question

tell me your opinions on the perfect timing (give me numbers) for a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship to "take it to the next level" which means sex play without any intercourse or oral sex. For those dating when did you decided to "take it to the next level" with your partner?. Thank you very much for your answers. I NEED AS MUCH OPINIONS AS POSSIBLE.

lets say shes 18 and he is 20

Answer 1

I don't think that there is any set number that you can have, as each relationship is different. And the ages of the partners make a difference too. (I know the younger ppl here are probably going to disagree with me though) Each person has their own moral standards that they live up to also. Some people won't even share a good night kiss on the first date. Taking all the different variables in account, you just have to wait until it feels right. With some people that time may never come, you may date for months and never get past just kissing, the connection will just not be there. Other times there just seems to be a spark, and it seems as if you've known the person for your entire life after one date, so the relationship moves at a faster rate and foreplay can happen after a couple weeks.(Hell some cases earlier) I know this isn't the answer you were looking for, but I wanted to give you an honest one.

Answer 2

My understanding is that any sexually arousing activity doesn't make sense unless you are sure you really want to be together for life, because the bond that sex creates is one of oneness, so third parties and breakups just aren't supposed to happen once you have done that.

So for me personally, I might consider kissing of the type that isn't just a chaste peck on the cheek after engagement, if I felt I could do that without 'having to have more'. If I couldn't, I probably wouldn't even go that far.

Anything else I'd save until after getting married.

Answer 3

It depend on how old you are and how comfortable both of you are with each other. I don't think that there is any correct time. Talk with your partner and see when would be a good time.. If you or they need to wait then it's not the right time. It has to be comfortable.

Answer 4

You can't put a number on a question like this. You can only take it to the next level when you're both ready and old enough. Soemthing tells me you're very young...

Answer 5

about 4 or 5 months I think is a good time. But its up to you and whoever your partner is to decide if you two want to move it to another level.

Answer 6

well it varies on person to person. For example, it took me 5 dates before i felt my dates breasts thru her shirt at the park. However, it took me 1 date to start frenching my current girl and and 2 more to feel her naked body. So like i said it depends on the partner, the lust and love u have for each other, and of course your confidence level in thinking "if i touch this person will they dump me for going to fast with them?"

hope this helps!

Answer 7

Well generally it takes almost up to two to three months for me and a guy but there is really no timing on that. You'll know when it feels right.

Answer 8

FIRST OF ALL, BOTH PARTNERS MUST BE WILLING AND TRUST EACH OTHER. IF THAT IS THERE, SIT THE MOOD. CANDLE LIGHT DINNER, FLOWERS, MUSIC. ONCE THE MOOD IS SET, READ BODY LANGUAGE. ALWAYS START SOMEWHERE SAFE LIKE, KISSES ON THE NECK, CARESSING THE ARM, AND FROM THAT POINT YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO ONCE YOU SEE THE FEED BACK

Answer 9

There is no actual time frame. its different for every relationship if you set dates to do stuff it will be plain weird and unnatural just go with the flow. U know what feels good to your body and what feels wrong go with your feelings

Answer 10

Depends on your age and how you feel...obviously if you don't feel comfortable with it, you shouldn't do it...both of you need to feel that it is the right time to make the next step!!