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other very well. we share a very good relationship the problem is my parents r against coz he is not good looking we r old enough to get marrid what should i do

2006-07-26 07:23:27 · 9 answers · asked by hot chilly 1 in Family & Relationships Family

9 answers

Your parents are superficial from the sound of it. If your and adult then I wouldn't worry what they thought. They are not the ones that will be living with them. Sit them down and tell them you are getting married and they have to accept your choice in your husband.

2006-07-26 07:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0 0

sounds like you have found a keeper , them are very rare qualitys now days..
If he is not abusive in word or action , and is the non jealous type.. go for it girl because like others have said looks are only skin deep and his looks don't seem to be bothering you.. There is a personality down in there that is worth it all.
Main things to remember. be able to talk to each other about anything..I mean anything .. be able to trust him with your love and your life.. He should be one that if someone says something bad to you he will defend you with out waiting for you to say something.. I am not talking about fighting either.
And you should be able to defend his honor with your parents. If they can't except him for what and who he is and for the fact that you love him and you both want to get married go for it.. sounds like a match made in heaven..
Just remember never go to bed mad.. alway make up. and mean it.
don't hold grudges.
main thing is to keep communication lines open between you at all times.
your family will soon learn to love him as much as you do when they see how happy he is making you..
just a sujestion here .. don't have kids to soon. you spend your time together learning to love and respect each other and then later start the family.. good luck with your parents.. does he know what your family is saying and thinking? tell him no surprises.. they hurt..

2006-07-26 08:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0 0

follow on. if u like the guy then go on dont bother what others say its ur life do as u wish. before u get married with each other, consider whether he is good or just hanging around with u for 'stuff'. dont jump into any conclusions before getting a job and having some money and a place to stay

2006-07-26 07:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by i luv the word awsome 2 · 0 0

If your parents are really against him because he is not good looking I feel sorry for them.Beauty is only skin deep.If you love each other and think you could love him forever go for it.Some of the nicest people I know are not the best looking but have other qualities that make them special.

2006-07-26 07:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by coolkid 2 · 0 0

if he has all those star qualities, why in the world would your parents focus on the fact that they think he's not good looking? in this day and age, if you can find a man who has those great qualities you described, you need to hold on to him. i'm sure you want your parents blessing on your relationship but they're being very narrow minded! sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do! you're old enough to know your mind and more importantly, your heart. good luck to you.

2006-07-26 07:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0 0

for specific every person could agree that your mom and dad reason of rejecting your particular somebody via ability of his seems is an rather shallow reason. "dont choose so which you wont be choose too" if your happy with him and you rather love him circulate forward and make a existence wirth residing. reminder female, making a family individuals with him - you have a no longer so good finding young infants.

2016-11-03 01:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

tell your parents to stick it. what kind of reason is that to not accept the guy? what, they only care about what their grandkids look like? that's so shallow.

2006-07-26 07:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by warriorn639mr 4 · 0 0

if you love him and he treats you good then who cares what other people think. you can't live your life t o make everyone else happy.

2006-07-26 07:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0 0

if your old enough to do what you want then do what you want to do! tell your parents to let you make your own mistakes.

2006-07-26 07:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0 0

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