but says they are just joking around. They were friend before him and i even knew each other, in fact she introduced us but it still upsets me.
2006-07-26 07:20:50 · 35 answers · asked by Annie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would be careful leaving him alone with your sister. if they were friends before the two of you met that just raises the question of how good of friends were they??
2006-07-26 07:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by babybro35 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She knew him before you and even introduced you so they are friends. But nobody flirts with no intentions. So talk to them separately and tell them that that kind of "joking" upsets you. Make it clear that they can be friends but that flirting is not acceptable.But when you talk to them don't demand anything or sound like a *****. Just make them know how you feel.
2006-07-26 07:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Vane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sister introduced the two of you you have nothing to worry about, your point of view may be a little biased as well, it is easy to see it as flirting even though it may be harmless fun, you did say they were friends before the two of you knew each other, so they aren't going to stop being friends because you go with him, plus its your sister, would she really try to lure him toward her.
2006-07-26 07:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you so much, say something to your sister and your boyfriend. They should definitely be sensitive to your feelings. I would also be highly upset if they were blatantly flirting in front of me. It is disrespectful. If they say that they are just joking around then it won't be hard for them to stop it, unless they really do have some kind of attraction to eachother..
2006-07-26 07:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by HelloKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...from what I experienced that is natural...especially if you are younger than your sister...my sis's boyfriends always flirted with me (even though I never reciprocated) and one of them even walked in on me while I was taking a shower!!! I wouldn't pay any mind to it...if anything, have a talk with your sis about how you feel and then the two of you can put your heads together to figure out a way to make it stop happening.
2006-07-26 07:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A threesome would be interesting, but I think you should talk to him about it. Then again, I've never had the pleasure of having two girls at the same time. Nonetheless, I'd never do that to my girlfriend. Talk to him about it. If he denies it and says that it's not a big deal, tell him that you're bothered by it and that you'd like him to stop. If he doesn't, then take more drastic action: dump his sorry ***. Or you could talk to your sister about it, IF she is the understanding type of sister. If not, then you still have to talk to your boyfriend about it.
2006-07-26 07:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really worth the problems it's going to cause between you and your sister. Probably not considering all the facts only you know.
2006-07-26 07:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by crazygreeniis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your beautiful in the picture at least so unless hes the next brad Pitt hes not worht your time so you can and should get better. a guy that loves spending time with you and would do anything at the drop of a hat for you. unless your serious about it . . . hes not worth your time and still stay friends with him though
2006-07-26 08:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by yung joc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be treated with respect.
In a way that is disrespectful of your sister,though she is your sister,confront her. She needs to know that it hurts you. As for the guy,let him go, you deserve better.
2006-07-26 07:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Annette P82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what kind of flirting is involved, I don't think it's such a big deal. But, obviously, you don't like it. So, tell them both that it makes YOU uncomfortable.
2006-07-26 07:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting with your sister, I don't think he is the one. Find someone else
2006-07-26 07:24:37 · answer #11 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋