2006-07-26 07:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by Gurliegurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u and ur friend r really close then u want to ask her and she if it is ok with her because u dont want to lose her as a friend(im hoping) and just tell her that you've liked him for a while and he wants to go out with u.And if she says dont do it because he'll treat u wrong trust her she mite be right but if they broke up because of him doing somthing to her that upsetted her then 9 outta 10 chances he'll do it to u and im sure u dont want that if it was bad enough for them to break up
2006-07-26 07:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cait 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still best friends with the girl then don't go there. He may be using you are a rebound or to see if he can get the two of you into a fight. My suggestion would to not date him, politely say you can't date your friends ex because it would makes things tense between you and your friend.
2006-07-26 07:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by miss_blk_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with your friend first to see if she minds if you go out with him. If you dont, you pose a real risk of losing her friendship. If she tells you not to go out with him, make sure you get a reason. And also consider why they broke up. If he did something to hurt her, will he do the same to you? I dont think it is wrong, as long as your friend has no problems with it. You dont want to hurt her, for your own gain.
2006-07-26 07:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i have sorda gone through this same type of thing.....it did not work out to well, first of all if she broke up with him then i think it would be okay depending on if it was something he did that was mean or hurtful (liking checking out another girl or cheating on her) then i would have to say no it would not be okay beause your friend must be really hurt enough by it that she broke up with him and i would not really want that sorda thing to happen to me, but if she just broke up with him for a dum reason and she just did not really like him as much as she thought she would then ask her if it would be okay with her (expecially if they had a long-term relationship) ......but also if you and your friend are really close and she would prefer you not dating him then stick with the friend unless it means alot to you to date this guy......also i would not date him if you dont believe he is the one otherwise it is not really worth it........take my advice and ask your friend if she cares about you and she understands that you care about him and how important it is to you and how you feel....then i believe everything will work out for the best...........
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2006-07-26 07:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your best friend if she would be alright if you and him dated... just tell her how much you and him like each other but you wanted her approval first because she means more to you than he does (which im hoping is true)... then hopefully she'll be alright with it and you two can go out without upsetting her... but just dont go out together and take her along too... there may be a few hard feelings there still
2006-07-26 07:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't go out with him out of respect for your friend. How would you like it if she did that to you? Guys come and go but friends are forever.
2006-07-26 07:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO for it. if you not going to try, you'll never know. you will always wonder what could have happened between the 2 of you. and if it didn't work out, you can still be friends. but you always liked him, so, there you go.... enjoy
2006-07-26 07:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by blommekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the nuts
2006-07-26 07:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋