My question pertains to possibility of a potential relationship inquiry.
Is it important for a guy to have transportation before getting involved in a relationship>? There is this girl I want to ask out but feel that I cannot because I have no transportation to take her out. Mind you I am in college and expenses are enough and am trying to save for a car. Should I just wait until I have money saved up or make the move now before it's too late>?
2006-07-26 07:11:28 · 13 answers · asked by Incredible2k6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think you shouldn't wait if you're really into this girl. Besides, it gives you the opportunity to find out how this girl really his and to see if she's worth it. Besides, what if you were to wait all this time and she turns out to be some kind of mean person? Take a chance what is there to lose? Good luck!!!
2006-07-26 07:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well cars or other transportation is definitely a good thing, and important, but I wouldn't put my social life or dating on hold because I don't have a car. Don't miss out on the fun simply because you don't have a car. Plan a date that's on campus or within walking distance. Walking hand and hand is a romantic gesture. Or maybe you can use public transportation - that's what buses are for. Good luck.
2006-07-26 07:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a loving heart and love her from deep inside ur heart. that's the most important thing a girl wants in a potential relationship.
Having transportation bears no importance if that girl loves u not ur car!!!
2006-07-26 07:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the move now before it is too late! You could even do something like rollerblade so that you don't need a car to pick her up or take a walk to a park nearby.
I hope I helped and Good Luck!
2006-07-26 07:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Transportation is the last thing girls worry about. Hopefully you live somewhere that has public transportation, a kiss on the train can really make her heart rate go up!
2006-07-26 07:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Carol R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the move now! There are lots of things to do without transportation. If she's going to like you, it will be for you, not for what you drive.
2006-07-26 07:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by nata26sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep saving for the car, and ask her out anyway. Worst she can do is say no.
Just remember not to spend all your money on her even if she's driving you. Get a decent car and it'll end up saving you money.
2006-07-26 07:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait, unless you feel comfortable with her to explain your situation. Depends on the kind of girl she is..if she's materialistic, she probably won't go out with you. Personally, I dated a guy who didn't have a car my first year of college, but I would've broke it off with him if he would havenever eventually got one. Good luck!!
2006-07-26 07:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
multiple issues. some are honesty, compatibility, reliability ,believe, love........ a lady loves even as a guy is upfront and straightforward which includes her. No beating around the trees or taking area in cover and search for.
2016-10-15 05:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it... when my boyfriend and i started going out, he didnt have a car and that was alright! we just took the bus places and enjoyed each other's company... yes having a car does help, but it isnt necessary...
you should go for it now... if she likes you, then it shouldnt matter whether you have a car or not...
2006-07-26 07:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋