how to deal with social loneliness. Cause nobody (my age 16, 17) wants to talk to me or listen. Even my family I doesn't want to talk. Have any advice...
2006-07-26 07:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by Welvis 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It sounds like you have some depression also. A good thing would be to ask to see a therapist. Someone you can learn to trust. You can tell them anything. They have enough experience that they can give you ideas on how to deal with your issues. Loneliness can be cured by making new friends. Be a friend to others whether they are your age or older. The best way to cheer yourself up, is to cheer someone else up. Just do little things for others! I have loneliness to and I go to therapy. I am learning to reach out to others. When I go out I make sure I smile and I also will talk to strangers things like it is a beautiful day! or just Hi! When I'm standing in line I will say something like I like your pants or I like your hat anything to get the other person to talk. It works honest! If you want to conquer your loneliness you have to do it for yourself. No one can do it for you. If your friends and family don't listen to you talk to others, theirs people out their that are very kind. Join a club. Go to different events. Get out and try new things. Find the things you enjoy doing and do them. Walk, read poetry, go fishing, go to the store and walk around get out and be around other people. You have to take charge of your life. Find a part time job. Think enthusiastically about everything. What ever you do, do it with all your heart and soul. Think positive! Tell yourself you are important! Do little things that make you happy! Pat your self on your back! When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on! Never give up! Loneliness is good in away, it makes us a stronger person! Good luck making these changes in your life! Hugs!
2006-07-26 08:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by bry7josh 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you have to find a new crowd of people or friends...if you have good friends(who you probably don´t because you wouldn´t be there posting this question)talk to them...i never talk to my family about my problems i tell it to my friend or keep it for myslef.
2006-07-26 14:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by marikuska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to us we're listening.
2006-07-26 14:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by TrickMeNicely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok for school go to someone that is lonely too. ok get a pet and talk to it thats what i do.
2006-07-26 14:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Baysidefan1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to me, and do not do anything drastic, or speak to someone you trust!
2006-07-26 14:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by mamania0625 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some LSD at school, then everybody will talk to you
2013-12-21 22:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-07-26 14:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mummy is not at home 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋