MY ex tells me she loves me & cried when i said that i've been with other girls..i want to get back, she says she wants to stay single, but she calls everynight and we talk. Why is she waiting if she she says she loves me?
MY ex tells me she loves me & cried when i said that i've been with other girls..i want to get back, she says she wants to stay single, but she calls everynight and we talk. Why is she waiting if she she says she loves me? When i mean been with other girls, i meant like dancing, movies, and dating..not the freaky stuff...but i do love her and i want her back, but she says she wants to stay single, but i'm the only guy she wants to be with. Do i show her love, or leave her alone?
2006-07-26
07:08:50
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jake
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probably leave her.
2006-07-26 07:10:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Talk about wanting your cake and eating it too. Tell her to quit the head games. How do you think being single and only being with you work. People who say that seem to only be waiting for something better to come along. If I were you I would continue on with your life and let this girl get her head on right and find out what she really wants.
2006-07-26 07:16:34
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answered by daack7 4
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leave her alone and stop talking to her...tell her when/if she's ready to be with you, then to call you. Until then, tell her it's too much for you to deal with right now. I think she's trying to manipulate you b/c she wants you to sit at home and be miserable..or...she has a lot of crap going on and doesn't feel comfortable telling you, so she wants to stay single. Most likely she is after someone else and doesn't really want you but doesn't want to be completely alone. Good luck!
2006-07-26 07:12:23
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answered by beautifully broken 3
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Leave her alone. Women can be very fickle minded and change overnight. Go on and live your life, if it's meant to be, she'll be back and you'll both be better for the time off. I been through it several times and when I woman says she loves you, gets jealous over you but doesn't want to get back together....that's bad news.
2006-07-26 07:13:56
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answered by Louis w 1
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Why in the world are you out dancing with other girls when you should be dancing with her? I think she just doesn't trust you and she's afraid you'll break her heart by your actions. When your a couple do things as a couple and not with other girls. Try not acting single that will help.
2006-07-26 07:14:19
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answered by Leila 3
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Go for her again and if she says she wants to be single just tell her that ur really love her and want to be with her, and explain to her what u ment by u were with other girls. and just tell her how much she means to u.
hope everything works out like u want
2006-07-26 07:15:38
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answered by the_cute_princess12 1
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You became exes for a reason, that reason is still there even if she cries and says she loves you. She's probably afraid she won't find anyone better. I suggest you move on and start fresh with someone new.
2006-07-26 07:12:42
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answered by Carol R 7
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Leave her alone. She's using you as her safety net. She doesn't want to be completely without companionship (and therefore without ego strokes), but doesn't want to commit, either. Basically she wants to have her cake and eat it, too. You deserve better. If she truly loved you, she would commit to you while still seeking ways to be independent. To be truly committed, she has to love being with you more than she loves the single life.
2006-07-26 07:13:26
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answered by Anonymous
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I think if she whats to stay single then she must not love ya to much. Sounds like she is just playin ya. You could stay friends but i dont think you should get back together.you dont deserve to get hurt.
2006-07-26 07:14:16
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answered by Heather M 1
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I would tell her how you feel, if she says she still wants to be single let her be... just stop talking to her for awhile so you have time to heal and get on with your life!!
2006-07-26 07:11:14
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answered by brenda4ever 6
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i am the same sitution expect i have an daughter involved me ex is playing head games too one minute he say he love me and want us to get married next minute he say we not together and i don;t understand it at sometimes just be there as her friend and once she ready she will get back with you
2006-07-26 07:16:11
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answered by cowanelmo 4
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