he cheated on with me with my best friend! she still wants to be my friend but i cant trust her. She had sex with him! what should i do?!
2006-07-26 07:06:46 · 41 answers · asked by Heather M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweety she s not ur best friend and most likely never was. move on , get her out of ur life and move on. it will hurt but if u keep her as ur friend next time she might hurt u even more. u dont need people like that near u , u deserve better. let her go. forgiveness is for humans not s_l_u_t_s
2006-07-26 07:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by deina1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awe, sorry to hear that happened to you, but I bet your loyalty means something important to friends who value that as their set standard. I would just move forward, and let them both learn the natural consequence of their action resulted in the loss of a great relationship and friendship. Let them deal now. You on the other hand have morals and are very capable of being a trusting friend. Who wouldn't want that...good luck, with meeting great new friends who will look forward to share fun experiences with you, because you are just great to be around!
2006-07-26 07:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be her friend go for it but you have to remember that if you chose to be her friend you cant hold it against her because you have given her a second chance i did it to my friend but it was her husband and we are still Friends today but we dint talk about it at all and it takes a bit for the trust to come back
oh yea and dont forget to dump his sorry a** once a cheater always a cheater
2006-07-26 07:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy, you do not need to be around people wwho hurt you. No matter if its your boyfriend, best friend, who ever. A friend who doesn't respect you enough to stay away from your boyfriend is a crummy person! And a boyfriend who doesn't honor you enough to sleep with anyone else except you is a piece of crap guy. Don't settle for anything less then you deserve! i hope this helps hun.
2006-07-26 07:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look....
there are always ups nd downs in every relationship.think about
what's still missing in ur relationship nd how you could improve it.
may be ur friend attracted towards ur boy friend nd its really easy for a girl to establish sexual relation with a man nd wait for right time nd do similar with ur friend.i think that ur boy friend is innoccent.judge ur boy friend carefully may be he is innoccent.i an giving u suggestion becoz i am also suffered by this problem.today i am spending a happy life with my partner.its not neccessery that every time man have fault sometimes women also do wrong things.i will hope that u will understand each nd every thing nd take corrective action to sout out ur problem
2006-07-26 07:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the one thing she ain't your damn friend, friends don't do that to friends. Second, she doesn't deserve your friendship or nothing else from you. So all I have to tell you is it's best not give her the time of day. Seems like she never valued your friendship when she decided to open her legs huh? Think about it. Good luck!!
2006-07-26 07:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how they always want to be friends after they rip yer heart out. (That goes both ways, your ex boyfriend and your ex friend). If I were you, I'd kick their asses. But that's just mild tempered me. You just go with yer heart. If you feel like continuing your friendship (a big round of applause if you do so), then just go for it. Needs time to heal the pain, but hey, this is what your heart tells you, right? If not, then go kick some ***.
2006-07-26 07:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Helix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain friends with her, that will teach her a lesson but bust the guy, he's not worth it.
He'll cheat on you over and over again.
If you remain friends with ur best friend, it'll make ur friendship grow.You won't regret it.
2006-07-26 07:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Just leave those two together. Your bestfriend does NOT deserve to be called YOUR "best"friend. And as for your bf?? As if dating with your bestfriend is not enough, he just had to have SEX with her! That's just wrong. It's better to forget about them, no matter how painful it'd be, and move on.
2006-07-26 07:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by chilimuncher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie cut them both off. she is NOT a frend if she is sleeping with your man. dont ever take that BOY back either. cheated once definitely will cheat again.
it donesnt matter if she sed it was a mistake because it wasnt. he didnt just trip on top of her and his penis jus fell into her
***** that girl and that no good boy
2006-07-26 07:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋