thankyou for everyone for replying to my previous posts, I now have an even bigger drama on my hands, my partner reckons I am now using my condition as an excuse and as a way of gaining attention and making her feel bad, but after having to take meds every day, blood test every three days to monitor my lithium levels, this is not enough to show that I am trying to take responsibility for my actions by seeking help which sometimes requires travels over 500 miles away & now she has filed for an "Ouster Order" meaning I have to vacate our home because of "domestic Violence" when I have never threatened her or physically abused her which is going to put more stress on my condition plus I have no money, am not entitled to any benifits & basically my savings have gone on my treatment and meds plus what every normal partner would, providing for a young family with a 3 month old boy! anyone got any suggestions??? can you apply to have this order lifted on medical grounds & finacial hardship??
2006-07-26 06:59:08 · 2 answers · asked by parso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Geeeez it stinks
Gezz I feel ya
Gezz I wish you the best
Gezz she must be ticked
In all reality you have done everything. Split your way and she will reconize when you have helped yourself that it is worth it.
Sry it sounds like your going throu a tought time. Bi polar is a common illness That in my opinion can be overcome. I have given much advice on it and would love to dig you out of the pit that I myself was once in.
When your ready or if your ready email me and I can give you a boat load of help.
As of your wife she doesent understand and never will. But After finding god the one who knows us individual can help us. Let that be your strength cause it is the only way. For years I tried to convince my everyone I knew of how hard my life was with bi polar.
Just in all reality know that god cares and I do. I can never judge you cause I know what it is like. Best luck on your life and do what seems best but remeber
There is really only one person who knows
Theropist
pyscotrist
none of them can ever relate
Christ has felt every pain you and I have gone through
Good luck I will be praying for you .
2006-07-26 07:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Don The great .................. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there should be a hearing coming up once the order has been issued. If so, you can have your say then. I know now that she will be putting you out, just maybe now you can apply for medical assistance for yourself to help with your medical cost. Now you have to ask yourself some questions, do you really want to be with someone that will give up on you.....the marriage vows says through sickness and in health. You need her support and understanding more now than ever. It sounds like you two need marriage counseling as well. Hang In There. Keep taking your meds and it will all work out for the best.
2006-07-26 14:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋