she was all over me, i asked her out and she backed off...whats goin thru her head and how do i change it??
2006-07-26 06:58:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me..shes' way mature for her age, she looks and act 15...its been about a month since i asked her...how long shud i wait to bring it up agian?? cuz i dont wanna rush things
2006-07-26 07:08:09 · update #1
Girls at your age are impossible to predict. One day they like one thing...the next they like something else.
One thing you need to know. If you are a nice guy.....there is nothing that will scare girls that age off faster. You tell her how you like her...you show her how nice you are and want to buy things for her....you in general act like you think she is the greatest girl you have ever known. Can't get enough.
Those things are the best way to guarantee you will see her run away. Makes no sense I know but it is true.
Girls like a boy that is confident.....keeps them guessing...what will he do next? If it seems like you are so busy you haven't time for her you will see a change in her.
When you are with her, make fun of her in a friendly way, and always pick on her. Never let her know how you feel. Girls love to laugh and they love guys that are a challenge. You, like most guys, may be too predictable.
Remember this.....attraction is not a choice. None of us make a conscious decision that we are going to be attracted to someone. We either are or we are not.
You can not make her happy! Only one thing you can do. Give her the gift of missing you. If you do that she may come running back. Don't count on it...move on to the next girl. The more girls you are seeing the more likely she will want you back.
I know....makes no sense but you just have to get used to it.
2006-07-26 07:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What smoke lover said. Maybe she's not ready for a bf yet. She's only 13 and mabye she wants guys her age. But if she doesn't changer her mind than start looking for another girl.
2006-07-26 07:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 13. Thats how 13 year old girls are. My question is....Did you ask her out BECAUSE she was all over you? Or did you like her before that? She might have been testing you to see if you were worth it. Either that or she has heard something about you....
2006-07-26 07:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's going through both of your guys head 15 and 13 are too young for all that crap. what's wrong with going to the mall and having some ice cream
2006-07-26 07:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u make her happy by doing things that a 13 year old gurl would do maybe ask her what she wants to do and if u dont feel comfterbal just tell her that no biggie
2006-07-26 07:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by prissyqm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 13 for heavens sake...she still has her Barbie's in the closet at home. She might like you and want you as a BF..but she really doesn't understand yet what all that intails...take your time and please don't rush into anything for both your sakes!
2006-07-26 07:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was her I would want to be left alone for a while to think it through. Because it would be really cool and I would want to make the right decision.
SO let her think then ask her about it!!
2006-07-26 07:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by ~bubbles~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's probbably a lot of things going through her head. . . .
give her some time. . . . . .
coz if she really liked you but she backed off. . . .
then there might be some things that she still wanted to consider or think about. . . .
2006-07-26 07:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by azn_bitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still a child in the long run by staying away from her you will be doing her a favor.
2006-07-26 07:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because ur older then her but just be friends for right now dont rush =until anything that she's not ready.but really i think she just wanted sex for you and not really want to be with you .but you need to becareful about these grils and just watie aand back off
2006-07-26 07:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋