I'm a nobody with no social life.. But does it mean if i was social and a SOMEBODY, that i could happen to me also ? I must say probably it could.. cause my cousin is OUTGOING and social and he just started going to english adult classes and he made a girlfriend.. just like that.. What do you say?
2006-07-26 05:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not a teen, i'm 26
2006-07-26 05:58:04 · update #1
TV is a horrible way to base your life on. It's actors and scripts following a basic plot. Everyone is different and developes at their own rate. Yeah, your lack of social life isn't helping you get a gf, so go out and change it because you want to. Not because everyone on tv is doing it.
2006-07-26 05:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, come-on, don't just say you are nobody. We are all SOMEBODY to someone, it's just that sometimes it gets a bit tough to meet that person to whom we are "somebody"..you get what i mean?...yeah, it's okay to be a bit shy as Girls sometimes like shy guys, i mean those guys that are not really sociable but not obnoxious of coarse! I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend isn't all jumpy and talkative and energetic...The heart that counts. You must be able to show to her how you feel about her. For you, just try to talk to girls more, be kind and gentle. We love men with manners...hold the door for her, get her soft drinks, small little sweet things that you do will actually make her to notice you. Don't worry, sooner or later some body's out there is bound to like you...so stay cool. Good Luck.
2006-07-26 12:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo man I feel you, you always have to look at it like your just one day away. You really are. I was in a serious slump and I met this girl like 2 months ago thinking nothing of it barley called and hung out now she digs me. I had no clue the whole time I wasn't calling or trying to hang out that it was attracting her even more to me. She was barley a thought, now I'm down to see whats up you know. When you do meet girls you dig don't be Puppies and Ice Cream, just do your thing and act like her number isn't even in your phone. Call or text once if you get no response don't call for any reason for at least 3 weeks if she digs you she will apologyze and try to be around you. You really got to just do your thing. Get on a bball Team, or find some hobbies to keep you busy so that your not so Availible, thats the key man if you forget everything I said here remember to NOT BE AVAILIBLE and she will hunt you down. I promise.
2006-07-26 12:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem pretty young from how your explaining things, when I was in my young teens I used to watch television to base my relationships on but truthfully it doesn't work out that way.
relationships take alot of work and effort which mane people aren't ready for at this time I am single because I can't find the right partner and I perfer to be single. ::smirks:: By the way how do you make a girlfriend?;)
2006-07-26 12:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by enslavement_whispers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say.. I have a social life, and I have no bf .. well I did, but it was too much drama... and good things come to those who wait.. relax about the issue and when the time is right it will happen - have a little faith in yourself..
2006-07-26 12:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Shy_and_Sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am just like u,not a social person but u got to stop thinking of urself as a nobody,bcos wot u think of urself is wot people see in you,try to socialise with everyone and always keep a smile on ur face,always works for me.and even got meself a bf.
2006-07-26 12:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by babytiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so be social & outgoing its that ez just to get your nerve up ask a girl on here out but be sure she is in your age range talk to her be her friend then out of the blue ask her out if you can talk to a girl on her you can do it at a club
2006-07-26 12:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by brilliant blonde babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your eye out 4 the right person and do things you enjoy. Don't try 2 change yourself into something you're not. good luck:)
2006-07-26 12:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i fond out the hard way its not inside that conts so like I updated my look talked to cooler people and got a date in no time.
2006-07-26 12:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by redhead hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and get a life....take some classes like your cousin is taking...see, how easy it is??? by the way, don't believe everything that you see on TV.
2006-07-26 12:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋