I need some advice, I started seeing this guy for a bout 2 weeks, then he left for a different country ( in the military) any ways he is gone for 6 months, we talk through e-mail and he calls somtimes, well since he has been gone I feel like I am falling in love with him I miss him like crazy.... should I tell him or just wait to see what happens when he gats home???
2006-07-26 05:34:50 · 22 answers · asked by sweetnessus8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you are feeling, it can't hurt anything!
2006-07-26 05:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello it's kathy,
Here you are how old are you? How long have you known him for2 ?Take one step at a time you'll know when it hit's you . If you tell him right know you might scare him away . Wait a little while and see what happen's with the relation ship. I know it will be for you to wait but you have to see if he say's something first then you'll know where he is in this relation ship ok i hope this help's you keep in touch ok you can be my friend on 360 if you like.
Kathy
2006-07-26 06:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it is good to tell him how you feel, I'd wait. Its too hard to read people accurately while they are away and the only communication is email and/or phone calls. If you spill your guts out you wont know really his reaction. He may hold a serious tone but be scared and then run away. Never hurts to drop very subtle hints of your feelings. It may help get him to show his feelings, he may be afraid to show his feelings just as you are, so showing small signs, if he is a bright and quick one that is, may help him produce his feelings to you. If he admits his feelings first then go ahead and tell him your feelings. If he doesnt, then go ahead and wait til you see him in person.
2006-07-26 06:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he gets home and see how things go from there. people have a strange way of looking perfect from a distance and you only knew him for 2 weeks before he left. nobody shows all their little quirky things in the first few months that they date. it takes longer than two weeks and a few emails to be "in love". he may seem perfect now but wait till he gets back and see how things go when you can spend some time together in person. by all means continue your relationship while he is gone but I would hold off declaring my love and putting all your eggs in that basket.
2006-07-26 05:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then tell him! don't wait for a thing you don't know what may happen but its better telling him than knowing that he loved you but couldn't tell you so is going out with some one else! that hurts than he telling you that he doesn't feel the same!
but you should first analyse your relationship and don't read too much into things but there is no harm in telling him how you really feel! alll the best
2006-07-26 06:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by kasaapa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he gets back home then tell him. Besides you just miss him I cannot see how you could be in love in 2 weeks with him not being there. Maybe you are just lonely.
2006-07-26 06:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by trina k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep connected to him, but wait to let him know your feelings until either 1) he tells you in no uncertain terms that he has serious feelings for you, or 2) he gets back and you have a chance to tell him in the flesh.
Best of luck!
2006-07-26 05:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dr NO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in the same position. I would ask him what does he feels now that he's away from you and if he says that he misses you and that he feels the same way, but not saying the L word directly, but sounds like it. I would tell him they way I feel, but not just saying the L word directly. It feels so much better if you know he feels now.
2006-07-26 06:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by samanthajgonzales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just wait until he comes back....sometimes we girls follow our impulses and we end up getting hurt real bad, trust me just wait until he comes back, and if you think he feels the same way tell him........If you think he doesn't feel the same way don't tell him, cause yo're going to feel real bad, trust me, I've been through this......I know it's hard, but be patient, wait till he comes back home! Good Luck
2006-07-26 05:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way id say to tell him, just in case later on he decides to stay and finish trainin and that would suck cuz it'll take about 5 years for complete training, and maybe if you told him, he;ll think he feels the same way and just finish the 6 months, but it depends on what you want to do and the way you look at things
2006-07-26 05:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by mychiqui93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he says it first, I would wait until he gets home and see what happens.
2006-07-26 05:39:05 · answer #11 · answered by me2frum925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋