All of my friends say I am good looking. I've had a few very handsome boyfriends. I kind of like myself but I have been single for quite a while. I some what like this loneliness but is it OK? I have a pretty cool personality and like to be social, very romantic, etc. Why is it that nobody pays attention to me? I have a good dress style. Things seem to be in place on me but what is wrong?
2006-07-26 05:31:55 · 9 answers · asked by applekarim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you pay attention to what you read then, you will find the answer for your questions. Yes I am gay!
2006-07-26 05:41:17 · update #1
Loneliness is something that everyone has to deal with at one point or another in their lives. Sometimes, after spending time with people, we actually welcome the times of loneliness. It is healthy and okay to enjoy it, as long as the period does not last too long, and as long as it does not lead to depression. Nobody may pay attention to you for the same reason that nobody pays attention to me: they are so caught up in the moment of their own lives, that they do not care about our lives. nothing is wrong for you to enjoy the loneliness, because it is time for you to find yourself again. You have been single for a while, and this allows you to do what you want, and act how you want, without having to be tied down from commitment. this is the new found freedom that you are enjoying from this period of loneliness. It will pass and you will find yourself back in the swing of social gatherings once again.
2006-07-26 06:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 17⤊ 3⤋
I do have a problem with loneliness. However being alone is different. People who are lonely have low self esteem and most likely have no friends. People who are alone just have not found anyone to hang out with momentarily. You should spend time by yourself to get to know who you are, what you like, and what you expect from others. Keep busy. Do things you haven't gotten around too. Good Luck
2006-07-26 06:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you find ways to keep busy - hobbies or volunteer work? It helps to not focus on your own problems when you are helping others. You can see if there is a Nursing Home nearby where you can volunteer once or twice a week. Keeping a journal also helps with loneliness. Or, you can try to find a priest or trusted counselor that you can talk to about your feelings.
2016-03-16 05:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonliness is natural, just start spending more time doing something that you love to distract you from it. That is what I do, I have 2 jobs because I don't want to have time to think about it and get depressed and upset.
I hope I helped and Good Luck.
2006-07-26 05:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be more agressive, if you see someone you want, go after them. Alot of times guys can be intimidated, so maybe make the first move
2006-07-26 05:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub One Off, lol
2006-07-26 05:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by jaychazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prolly wanna asks the gay folks man, I'm not gay so I can't relate.
2006-07-26 05:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only ques of phool (flower) & Fool
2006-07-26 05:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by turbheplaza49 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude r u gay? and second get a life
2006-07-26 05:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by carlosofia2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u gay?
2006-07-26 05:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋