It's only been three dates, but how can I tell if the girl I'm dating really isn't interested in me and may be going out just for the attention and free fun? I'm concerned b/c she doens't show a lot of interest in me during conversatins, whereas I show much interest in her. She also doesn't seem very interested in having conversations outside of our dates. I text her, but get responses that cut off any dialogue.
Are there signs I can look for to see if she's just dating me for reasons other than interest in a relationship?
2006-07-26 05:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it seems to me that you have already picked up the sign "to see if she's just dating me for reasons other than interest in a relationship"
If Im interested in a guy then i will make it obvious, without looking desperate! Shes obviously not worth the trouble and worry, after three dates with her i think you would no if shes worth it
2006-07-26 05:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by strawberry_fairy_6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALL WOMEN USE MEN. Get used to it. It also shows that she is well aware of how to handle men. She has made you neurotic, insecure, worried, yaddah in just three dates!!!!! Conversations with women???? Get real. The only thing meaningful to women is themselves and anything that concerns them; so talk about what she wants to talk about, etc. Remember your place in the plan of life; if a woman even notices you it is as low life scum that will be allowed to worship her and serve her every whim. Get used to it or get ulcers.
2006-07-26 05:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, maybe shes just shy like my first date. and yes, many of my dates dont have interest in my conversations too simply because we have different interest, for example, i love basketball and she doesn't therefore conversation was hard. Try to talk about things she likes and that should work. Good luck
2006-07-26 05:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by The King of Games 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just mentioned two of the signs, drop that chic and let he use someone else, matter of fact don't even contact her and see how fast she hooks up with someone else. you will be surprised but at least you will be free :)
2006-07-26 05:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you already know the answer to this. Sorry, but she's just not into you. Cut your losses and move on.
2006-07-26 05:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to i gnore her and if she is really interested on you she will pursuade you to come back to her. If not just forget her . She is not your type. Ok best of luck
2006-07-26 05:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by krish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Yes...very easily..........But I had to learn the hard way. Not a pretty memory.
2006-07-26 05:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by ironn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO CAUSE WE TOO GOOD AT OUR GAME. WE ARE UNPREDICTABLE, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW.
2006-07-26 05:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by shaken_04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋