2006-07-26 05:08:39 · 48 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That must be the stupidest question I EVER HEARD!!!! Are You THAT DUMB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanx For the 2 Pts Cracka!!
2006-07-26 05:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by XXSEXY66XX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT. He asked you out, you gave him the privilege of your company. You owe him nothing but a thank you.
It's very sad to me that it's come to this, women feeling like they owe something for a date. It used to be that men always paid and no one expected sex until marriage. Sometimes I think it was better back then.
I do think that it's nice to offer to pay every now and then. And if you ask a man out, it's your obligation to pay. But would you feel that he owes you something more if you pay? You might want more, but that doesn't mean he owes it.
2006-07-26 05:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't but some guys are so pathetic nowadays and cheap that they are probably expecting something but don't do anything. My husband when we were first dating 10 years ago paid for everything for the first couple of months and I never game him more than a kiss. Once we knew we were "boyfriend and girlfriend" I then started paying for dinner once in a while or we would both pitch in.
2006-07-26 05:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asked you out for a dinner that was his call if he felt you owned hem something then that was a bad move on for maybe one day you may have asked them out for dinner in return or maybe a drink or a show this ideas of asking some out an then think that some owe them is bull but to return a meal or a drink is showing good friendship what ever come after the meal or what ever is agreement on both side as the agreement of the meal
2006-07-26 05:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by brent2032 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. But if he's going to pay for dinner, it does mean he is somewhat interested in you. So odds are he likes you or maybe he does expect something at the end of the night but it could be something as simple as kiss. Basically, if you don't like him in that way, then don't let him pay. If it gets to the point where he's rediculouslly insisting, then just let him. Maybe thats the way he was raised.
2006-07-26 05:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by vududanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not but on the next date you should at least pay for yourself so that he doesn't think that you are a gold digger. Don't listen to the perverts on here saying that you owe the guy sexual favors because that is not true.
2006-07-26 05:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What...no way honey!! Thats what courting is all about...if he asked u on a date he pays..now if u asked a guy on a date..it might be different but i think in my opionion the guy should pay for awhile at first..at least the first 4 dates
2006-07-26 05:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not, you do not owe him anything. He's taking a risk in that things might not work out between you two, but that's what we guys have to do.
2006-07-26 05:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's entirely up to you. First date, maybe a kiss good night, second date a little making out, third date and this how I was raised,SEX maybe. 2 people go out 3 times,third date should have sex.
2006-07-26 05:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too me it means nothing, but the majority probably sex. If I pay for a date's dinner, I am merely doing it too be nice and make her happy.
2006-07-26 05:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by demiser55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, what you owed him after dinner was precisely what you owed him before it--courtesy--and that you demonstrated at least once already by offering him your good company at dinner.
2006-07-26 05:31:04 · answer #11 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋