Thanks to all who have previously responded to my ?'s. I get I can be a stubborn pain in the neck about this issue.
I understand the point of how I should feel lucky to not be physically handicapped, how i live in america and not other places. Problem is i don't, i actually feel more hatred; like why was i given such gifts as that and others who have motivation haven't. I guess I just don't get the purpose of why I'm here and others who are or were far better human beings worse off or dead.
I just don't get it i guess, any of this stuff on life (maybe it's cause i kept myself so isolated from people that I just don't get what's normal or accepted). I guess i'm just lost. Told to find people with similiar interest, but not finding any i can connect with. I don't get why i've been given 2nd, 3rd, 15 chances when others who do good things don't get even the 2nd chance. I guess i'm just looking for what could make me worth saving, cause i just can't see it. Thanks.
2006-07-26 05:05:35 · 6 answers · asked by eagleland06 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
wow! I'm guessing you are in your early 20's....I can remember feeling that way and it was awful! I have come to realize that I do have a purpose. Don't worry about connecting to others, the harder you look for them the further away they are. Get busy with anything it will help your mind slow down and don't isolate yourself. To find your purpose will just happen, it may not be saving the world or climbing the highest mountain, it might just be helping a child through a problem, remember you have been given all these chances for some reason....good luck...and I hope this made sense lol
2006-07-26 05:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm so so sorry you are having these feelings! I can relate to them, about 4 years ago I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder (afraid to be in public or with people), depression and mild agoraphobia (fear of leaving my home). I felt worthless, I felt I had no purpose and all I could dwell on was all of the hatred and horrible violence going on in the world.
Since that time, my life has changed considerably. For one thing I have a wonderful family that needs me. Even when I have days when I feel like they would be better off without me, deep inside of me, I know how sad they would be and I would miss out on what I now know I have to offer. I also have faith in God! That has gotten me through so much and helped me when nothing else could. I recently read Rick Warren's book, "The Purpose Drive Life" and it helped me reaffirm my purpose here.
I am a pleasant person, because of the pain and abuse I've suffered in my life, I am a more compassionate person and am able to look past people's flaws much more easily. I truly believe that because of the things I have been through, I am a better person. These things have helped build my character, made me a more compassionate and helpful person and I now feel I have real purpose here.
People who know what it is like to really hurt inside are the ones needed to reach out to others who feel the same way. Think about those people in the world who are hurting as badly as you are and have noone to reach out to them. If you and I ended things, or stayed closed up in our homes, who would reach out to them. I have found that reaching out to others makes me a much happier person with a feeling of belonging and a feeling of purpose.
I will pray that you will find this peace and your purpose in this life. When you've tried everything else and it doesn't work, look up, listen to your heart, you'll find the answer and the peace you need. It doesn't happen overnight but it does happen. God bless, my friend!
2006-07-26 12:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by amomentssunlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you need to motivate yourself to do something, chances are that you wont do it. So instead dont think that you need motivation. Instead try thinking that you want to be happy in life and everything is ok with you. When I am really down and feel that there is nothing to look forward in life, I try to turn my attention to something else. I try not to think that I am sad. I believe that eventually I will reach a point where i will tell myself my life was worth it and proved myself. Till then, its a fight I have to win.
2006-07-26 12:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Erwin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get to read your last post, but. I really believe God gives gifts and special talents to peopleit's our job to embrace them and use them for good. But you have to understand that yea there are people worse off, but, if your not then use it to the advantage of others.. That will help you find the purpose your here for.. What are you good at.. What makes you feel whole when you do it? Are you in the position to help others.. Absolutely, even if its not financially, People and children especially spell love T I M E... use it and to for the glory of God, not yourself.. Our purpose here on this loaner planet is to use our talent and gifts for others and glorify God.. And find the belief in Jesus Christ and embrace it.. Good luck. I know you'll find something to do and make yourself feel purposeful..
2006-07-26 12:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by tracienmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey im unmotivated yet i appreciate all that has been given to me. You just have to do something you enjoy. Dont worry about money or this pathetic society we live in most people are misrable but they cant admit it at least you can. I suggest you go on a hike or play music or something creative,
2006-07-26 12:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by the holy divine one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the mystery of life, if we all knew what the purpose was, living wouldn't be as much fun! Don't question your second chances, be thankful you have them.
2006-07-26 12:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by gorfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋