Both my grandpa and my grandma died and I cant stop thinking and thinking it was my falt and its not and my other grand parents dont speak a word of eglish.
2006-07-26 04:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unless you physically did something to cause their death, then I'm certain it's not your fault. You never let them go because they are someone you apparently loved dearly. Time mends wounded and broken hearts. Remember the absolute fondest and greatest moments and don't try to forget them but remember the joy to brought to your life. Start building a relationship with you other grandparents by spending time with them. Language is not the barrier, you are. You didn't mention the language but teach them English, simple one words on a index cards to start building a vocabulary that you both can share, label items in their home with their language and in English and make that your special way of building a relationship, Try a city college that teaches language and you all attend together. Remember Love and hugs are the same all over.
2006-07-26 05:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard thin to do. My father died while I was sitting with him. I went to sleep and while I was asleep he passed on. I cant get it out of my mind that if I had been awake there is somthing that I could have done.
There really was nothing that I could have done but that dose not really change the way that I feel.
He had cancer and was going to pass on no mater what I did or did not do.
They are in a much beter place so tell them that you love and miss them and go on with your life that is what they would want.
There is no one that has ever walked out of this life. for life is only a short part of the long jurny
2006-07-26 05:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss them and regret that you have not done a lot of things for them while they were alive so your feelings are bothering you. Action can replace words if you can't communicate......Since they are gone so is no point habouring such feelings in your heart. Instead from now you should do and care for your loved ones while they are still alive so that you the regrets will not happen again.
2006-07-26 05:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hurts...my grandma and me were closer than i have ever been to someone in my entire life. she died 10 years ago last month. im still not able to let her go. you dont want to let them go. you want to remember them, think about them, miss them. its not healthy to try to mentally block something out, because it just builds up. talk to people about them, tell stories about them, and start thinking about the happy things. it will be alot easier. just remember, that someday, somewhere, you will see them again. thats what i think when i start to miss my gram. i picture her face, and then i smile. then i go on doing whatever i was doing. it takes time, but youll get through it.
2006-07-26 05:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Erin P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I think I kinda know how you feel. My Great-Grandmother died when I was 7 and I couldn't go visit her in the hospital before she died. I hate myself for that.
2006-07-26 04:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by roxy81492 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just..Got to move on
Try living a life..Not thinking about grandma and pa
They are always be your side no matter what
They are always in your heart..
2006-07-26 05:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by ~Peace~N~Love~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to lose someone you love but you dont have a choice just remember that they will always be in your heart and you will never forget them. They will live on through you in your memory.
2006-07-26 04:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get professional help! - psychologist or other therapist... grief is very difficult to deal with by yourself.
Alternatively, see a person of your spiritual faith, if any - like a priest, rabbi, sheikh, monk.
2006-07-26 05:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Limon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can let go by taking their corpse and dumping them in the river.
2006-07-26 04:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by no_clue_on_what_2_do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im know how you feel try not thining abaout it or do soming you like maybe reading,writting,shoping.
2006-07-26 05:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by prutyprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋