I'm going out with this girl I really like and I was wondering how should you approach a girl for the first kiss without ruining the moment and when is the best time, and how do I know when she wants to be kissed?
2006-07-26 04:53:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best time is when you two are alone, but first create a good mood by doing something that makes her feel good (compliments, jokes, small gift etc), then get close, give her a loving touch on the arm or shoulder, look into her eyes and lean in...if she doesn't push you away...then she's kissable.
2006-07-26 05:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, geeze! The first kiss is such a predicament, huh? Okay, first off, be confident and cool about it. It sucks if the guy's overly nervous b/c it rubs off. Tell her something she didn't know. Just one day, out of nowhere, when you guys are hanging out mention how you thought the first time you saw her she would be stuck up b/c she was so pretty and then you realized how cool she was or you noticed how she always drew a heart next to her name. Something that shows you've been paying attention to her for awhile. And then when you know she's flirting back hardcore, get her alone and grab her hand while you're walking, pull her in, grab her chin for cuteness and aim, and give her nice sure but gentle kiss.
2006-07-26 05:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the kiss, it's that mile and a half distance you have to approach when kissing for the first time!!! LOL. The time will feel right, pal. Get close to her and lean in. Look her in the eye (I know, scary!), and lean in closer. Jut let it happen. The wosrt thing you are doing right now is thinking too much about it. Remember, she'll be terrified too!
2006-07-26 05:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
k im a girl so i can tell u...the perfect moment well i dunno depends on u to...if u like things private and stuff kiss her when yuo're alone if u dont mind being watched then kiss her anytime...to approach her just grab her hand or something and approach her slowly dont go all the way or she wont like it now if its your first kiss i would say ''Dont use tongue''...you will know if she wants to be kissed if she doesn't ignore you or doesn't move away if she stays waiting for you to kiss her she wants to. Happy Kissing!!
2006-07-26 04:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by SHE'S A DANCING QUEEN ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most women the setting must be romantic.
could be music or at the beach or after she poured her heart out
about personal stuff
you never want to just start kissing a girl she will feel violated unless the mood and setting call for it!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 05:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. this is a cute question..
its nice that you actually care what she thinks instead of sticking your tounge down her throat..
but.. well it should be when you guys are alone.
if you want it to be short.. it doesnt matter when you do it.. you can do it whenever.
if you want it to be alittle bit... nicer i guess.. look into her eyes for a couple seconds, then kind of cup her face with one hand and go in for the kill.
thats the best i can tell you. good luck.
2006-07-26 04:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking about kissing maybe she wants to kiss you but is waiting for you to break the ice
2006-07-26 04:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss the back of her hand first... (very softly)
then at the next date, ask her if you can kiss her cheek... (if she says yes, just brush it with your lips)
then wait until the next time you meet and ask if you can kiss her lips... if you kissed her hand and cheek just right, she'll be dying to try her lips on yours... but make sure it is soft, light and fleeting... nothing heavy and no tongues... make her want more...
2006-07-26 04:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but you should tell me when you find out.
I don't want to approach a girl, I wanna have a reason for being mad at my ex.
2006-07-26 04:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IOI (Indicators of Interest.) You have to check those out during the date. google "The Mystery Method". Its the best!
2006-07-26 04:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Umpalumpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋