2006-07-26 04:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by corkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am a funeral director who's had similar situations to this, the family went ahead and found the "real" parents, I was later told that they were very glad they did it
2006-07-26 04:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by randy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would, for a lot of different reasons. First, you kinda need a family health history nowdays, its just a good thing to have so you can try to ward off heart disease and so forth, if it runs in your family then you can know what to watch out for and get regular check ups for it. I would also do it just to see what they are like, and to hear their story. I would like to know why they chose adoption and then tell them all about my parent, maybe to ease their mind a bit too, I'm sure they have always wondered about that child they gave up. Assuming, of course, that it is a happy meeting. Sometimes the rreal parents dont want to know, especially if you are going to tell them their child is deceased. It may end up hurting you more than you are hurting now over your deceased parent, but if it was me I would want to know. Good luck and I hope it all works out.
2006-07-26 11:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a great idea. Even when they are not around anymore at least you will know more about them and you will not feel alone cause there are families that you belong too.
2006-07-26 11:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by amber200271 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely no. There is a reason thay never found each other... I think that its not your place to go there, its just looking for issues.
2006-07-26 11:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely I would, in fact I did and found a whole new family I did not even know I had........it was wonderful.......
2006-07-26 11:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. It would be too hard to trace it after all this time.
2006-07-26 11:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...
I think it is important to know your past.... because your past will always be a part of your future....
Corny... but it's what I think.
2006-07-26 11:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cuz i would want to know my family
2006-07-26 11:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by angels_among_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋