I talked to my boyfriend last night and we planned on hooking up this morning around 10 or 11 because I have to work later on in the afternoon. He seemed very excited when we talked about hooking up over the phone.He also promised he would call me in the morning when he was on his way to come pick me up. Well now it's about 11:30 and I still havnet heard from him at all. I was wondering should I call him or wait for him to call me first. I'm really geting the feeling that he stood me up..
2006-07-26 04:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You been stood up 4sho. Call him and give him a piece of your mind.
2006-07-26 04:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does stuff like this all the time. He'll be late and not call me for whatever reason. I've learned to be used to it. But I would call and make sure he's coming. He could have forgotten, and then you might be angry at him for standing you up when he didn't even remember you two were supposed to hang out! Call and ask if he's still going to hang with you, and don't sound angry. You don't want to make him feel bad for it. Just accept what happened and move on. Hopefully he will have just forgotten and will visit you right away.
2006-07-26 11:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Caryssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sorry to hear that. It doesn't feel good, that is for certain to have someone say something to you and not follow-through.
My suggestion -
1. Don't call him... do NOT call him
2. If he does not show up, yeah he "stood you up"
Move on. This is an indication of how he will continue to treat you. I"m sure he'll have some excuse, this or that, etc. Don't buy it. Save yourself alot of grief later. If he cared, he'd follow-through on what he says to you.
Good Luck!
2006-07-26 11:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl call him!!Tell him how you feel,and tell him you love him,you love him right?Tell him your feeling's for him i mean just talk to him maybe he is still sleeping my finace does that to but he is still sleeping in the mornings as well.So i have to wait but i always call to leave a message for him and then he always call's me back the moment he wakes up so i know he has been asleep.Just call him and see maybe he slept in late.Good luck sweety.I wish you all the luck ok.
2006-07-26 11:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could call him, but if he's busy with something else he probably won't answer. I would not chase him around, but the next time you are going to hook up, if he doesn't show when he says he will. I wouldn't wait around for him.
2006-07-26 11:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him. maybe he just got caught up in something last minute. either that, or he stood you up like a jerk. but always go for the positive. pick up the phone
2006-07-26 11:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how well you know him. It might not hurt to give him a call in case an emergency came up....something urgent that he can't call you right away.
2006-07-26 11:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy_Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he stood you up DO NOT CALL. Make him wonder if you made other plans, ect.
2006-07-26 11:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit up Joey Greco and he'll get to the bottom of this!
2006-07-26 11:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Will the Thrill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him.
2006-07-26 11:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋