i really liked this guy, so i asked him out, he said yes. Now like 3 months after that he never calls me or tlks to me, i try calling him he is never home. i know he isnt on a trip. i love him sooo much!!!!!
wat do i do?
2006-07-26 04:18:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LET IT GO girl.....It isn't love if it's not returned. It is just a crush/infatuation......you think it's love, but it is NOT.
Find someone else....or what could help, find things that you don't like about him and tell yourself it's for the better that you are not with him. Convince yourself that you are too good for him.
Move on girl date other people. you'll see I'm sure your not missing anything.
2006-07-26 04:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Marlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Gilbert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do anything with the guy? Intimate? If so, that's might be why, just wanted a wham bam thank you ma'am. Are you sure you love him, you haven't spoken to him in 3months and you probably don't really know him, cause if you did, you would know the reason why he's been avoiding you. I"m not trying to sound harsh, but just let him go and if he truly wants you he'll call you. When you let him go, if you see him again, don't say hi or anything, just ignore him, he might call you that same night. Be hard to get.
2006-07-26 04:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After three months, there is a lot to say whether a relationship will work or end. If he is not returning your phone calls it sounds like he has moved on. Or he maybe having some problems with family or others. If he really cares about you maybe he will reach out to you and actually tell you what's going on but until he calls you, you will have to wait or move on with your life! I think this situation requires space and maybe someday he will explain exactly what happened!
2006-07-26 04:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by latina311204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been calling him every day? Don't. You'll frighten him away. Take a break. Do your stuff. If he loves you, he'll call you back after chilling out/cooling down/sorting things out/doing his stuff/busy with work or studies or whatever... Remember guys only do one thing at a time... They can focus one thing at a time unlike ladies who can think a wide range of things at a single moment...
I read a book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" saying "Men are like rubberbands".... They will need to stretch out, get their space to gain autonomy, power, strength, space etc... then once fully stretched out, they'll have more spring & bounce & energy & power when they bounce back to you.
Initially, guys have all the energy to pursue you & all that. After that, they'll cool off...
If not bounce back still, then you've to set your eyes on other "rubberbands"...
Wait... Have you gone with him at all? ... Stop loving him (to minimize pain/hurt/disappointment)... cos you've not even start a proper relationship... You can still like him but not love him yet... Love only when you're sure he loves you too... *safe approach* It takes two to clap... Never force... If not, he won't be happy... And you end up unhappy as well...
2006-07-26 04:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem a couple of months ago. i think that you should stop calling him and stop trying to get intouch with him. the person who cares the least wins. it's like he knows how you feel about him and he just doesn't care. and i know it's hard loving someone and them not responding to you or how you feel but it will get better. yes, it will be hard at first but everything always is and like everything it will eventually get better. why waste your time on somebody who isn't will to waste their time on you? if he feels the same way about you then let him get in contact with you. and don't go out looking for love because then it might not be true let love come find you.
2006-07-26 04:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by cripts101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Love! Some Guys can be ***** about relationships. If he would answer yours calls you should get back out there and try to date other people! OR go to his house and find out way he hasn't answered you calls
2006-07-26 04:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by pullersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in love with the concept of love more than love itself.
If this guy is treating you like this, I wouldn't stay with him. I would try to communicate with him and talk with him, but really I would let it be. If he's not trying to make the relationship work, then he's not worth having around.
2006-07-26 04:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a good answer listen up. you should go to his house or try and find him somewhere. when you do find him...talk it through. maybe he thinks you did something you didn't or maybe he doesn't want to go out with you anymore and doesn't want you to feel sad so he is trying everything he can think of to avoid breaking up with you and hurting your feelings. and keep in mind the possibility that he could be having family problems. do one thing for me though. if he is a real jerk...give him a pop in the mouth for me. No girl should be treated that way.
2006-07-26 04:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by heavenwithchrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know his house go over there wait for him and talk him ask him what is going on and what the problems are be very patient with him on he other hand if u don't see him keep leaving messages on him telling him that u really have to talk in time he will give in and if u are a christian pray about it. God always answers in his time
2006-07-26 04:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by teddygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋