i am confident of myself but ppl..?

Question

are being so annoying...they keep telling me stop pretending as u r confident of urself while u r not...I have never ever doubted myself in that but now..i mean am not pretty sure what to do..I became more likely to be alone and never express myself to others..coz whats the point if i did and they dont believe in me

*My English is perfect enough for me..

Answer 1

be who you are. It is always better to just be yourselve than to downgrade yourself to make other people happy. If you know that you don't have any problems iwth yourself, then that should be good enough for eveyone else. There will always be critics out there who will judge you, but just ignore them, they are not worth your time.

Answer 2

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1. Your English is so poor I had to read your question twice to try to understand what the heck are you asking?

2. You must be a bit uncomfortable with your confidence or you would not be asking complete strangers IF you are confident. When you have to ask, then you are not confident.

3. None of us ever stop growing in self-confidence...there is always more room for improvement.
No one is ever perfect in all things. So you should focus on what you are good at, and leave the rest for others to do well.

4. If someone tells you that you are "pretending" to be something or some way you act, and it is the TRUE you; all you need to reply is "I am what you see." Then just smile at them. Do NOT argue with them. Just continue to smile.

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Answer 3

I can understand why people would tell you that you are not confident. For instance, "My English is perfect enough for me". Either it is perfect or it is not, there is no such thing as perfect enough.

If you make a statement like that you are showing that you are unsure of yourself.

When you say "i mean am not pretty sure what to do" , again you are showing your insecurity. If you are a confident person, you will not care what others think. You will stop using negative statements and being self confident doesn't allow you to not express yourself. If you are confident, you will express yourself.

I'm sorry but you do not seem self confident to me. To become self confident, start liking yourself and stop questioning others about your confidence.

Answer 4

This is indeed your second question, the fact that you have asked two questions like this in such a short space of time shows you are doubting yourself more than ever and are not confident/comfortable in your skin - Get over it.

Answer 5

i like u..i am going threw the same prob, people dont like me because im way to over confident, which i am i mean i love myself and i know i could do evrything, but people think i act all that and show off so people dont like me, but the funny thing is that when i talk to peopl that dont like me they cant even look me in the eye lol email or IM me to talk bout it oh and u should just try to not be so confident around evry one i mean do be confident but dont show it a lot to people, cause if u good it'll show and take a brake from those people, best thing appologize, but i'll never do that lol

Answer 6

Don't allow others to take your confidence away. Try to find some people who will appreciate your confidence. Volunteering is a good way to go because most volunteers are pleased to be around others with good self-esteem.

Answer 7

do yourself a favor, don't try to convince anybody of who and what you are, a truly good person doesn't have to cry out that they are a good person, they just do what they do and keep right on going, as far as looks go, sorry but most people do wind up getting together in the beginning because of physical attractions, but for those people thinking about a life long relationship they had better prepare themselves now for the truth, when we get old and grey beauty fades and skin starts to sag, you had better truly love a person for who they are or you are going to be screwed, so don't worry about your looks sweety, just be yourself and you will do fine

Answer 8

If you are asking this question you are not as sure of yourself as you claim. So stop listening to these idiots, they are trying to break you down. Stay True and Confident.

Answer 9

Ignore them, when your friends bother you about you being confident in yourself, your contradicting yourself by taking it in. Being confident is about believing in yourself NO MATTER WHAT other people say or do. Just keep believing in yourself and ignore what others say.

Answer 10

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