Been through numerous relationship. well most of them got either games or drama. True love extinct? Unbeleivable. Seen alot of bullshit nowadays. How true can we find the person. Honesty, Trust where are they? Where are the respect and value gone?
It is wierd, where are the saying we live to grow old together?
Not being sentimental or romantic but is it a notion?
Life is unpredictable but relationship are beyond the logical of thinking. You may live with that someone for
20 yrs next thing you know divorced????? Why wait till 20 yrs or even get married. Is it marriage is just a piece of paper?
May she be fairer than the mead of may
or make pale cheeks of rosy ore
if she not care of me what care of how fair she'll be
2006-07-26 03:58:00 · 6 answers · asked by Zeuls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmph, I hope I can read a lady mind. But for info they the most complicated in the world.
2006-07-26 03:59:22 · update #1
YOU MUST HAVE TO KNOW WHAT THE LOVE IS...
READ IT CAREFULLY THEN YOU WILL SURELY KNOW WHAT IT IS ....
Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.
The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love, calling it a recently invented abstraction. Others maintain that love exists but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. The views that love does not exist or is indefinable may underlie the fact that approximately 13 percent of cultures have no word for love. [1] [2] The remaining 87 percent attempt to define this abstract concept and apply it to everyday life. Love is one of the most common themes in art and often times is an excuse for " bad art". Some psychologists maintain that love is the abstract action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another
Overview
Love has several different meanings in the English language, from something that gives a little pleasure to something for which one would die. And in contrast to the definition at the top, frequently people use the verb "love" to indicate want or desire for themselves as opposed to for another. For example: "I love that lamp," does not refer to desiring wellness for the lamp, but rather to the desire for the lamp. The word also frequently indicates elevated appreciation or admiration: "I love that artist," An individual might state.
Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish. Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, and love for the respect of others. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain. Many believe, as stated originally by Virgil that "Love conquers all", or as stated by The Beatles, "All you need is love". Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of 'absolute value', as opposed to 'relative value'.
Types
Courtly love – a late medieval conventionalized code prescribing certain conduct and emotions for ladies and their lovers
Erotic love – desire characterized by sexual desires
Familial love – affection brokered through kinship connections, intertwined with concepts of attachment and bonding
Free love – sexual relations according to choice and unrestricted by marriage
Platonic love – a close relationship in which sexual desire is nonexistent or has been suppressed or sublimated
Puppy love – romantic affection that is not "mature" or not "true." The term reflects a bias that love between youngsters is somehow less valid.
Religious love – devotion to one's deity or theology
Romantic love – affection characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire
True love - love without condition, motive or attachment. Loving someone just because they are themselves, not their actions or beliefs in particular.
Unrequited love – affection and desire not reciprocated or returned
Scientific views
Throughout history, predominantly, philosophy and religion have speculated the most into the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. Recently, however, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have begun to take centre stage in discussion as to the nature and function of love.
Biological models of sex tend to see it as a mammalian drive, just like hunger or thirst. Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg created his Triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components : Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Intimacy is a form where two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives. Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment on the other hand is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever. The last and most common form of love is simply sex, or passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. This led researchers such as Yela to further refine the model by seperating Passion into two independents components : Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion.
Cultural views
Although there exist numerous cross-cultural unified similarities as to the nature and definition of love, as in there being a thread of commitment, tenderness, and passion common to all human existence, there are differences. For example, in India, with arranged marriages commonplace, it is believed that love is not a necessary ingredient in the initial stages of marriage – it is something that can be created during the marriage; whereas in Western culture, by comparison, love is seen as a necessary prerequisite to marriage.
Religious views
Love, in the form of subjective devotion, seems to have been originally understood as the proper response to idealised objective natural forces (pagan polytheism). Later religions shifted the emphasis towards single abstractly-oriented objects like God, the law, the book, and the church (formalised monotheism).
Alongiside these two objects of subjective human love (mono and poly), there a third view which recognises a state or truth distinct from (and often antagonistic to) the idea that there is a difference between the subject and the object (pantheism). Love is reality itself, of which we, moving through time, imperfectly interprete ourselves as isolated part.
Definitional issues
Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness.[3] In colloquial use, according to polled opinion, the most favoured definitions of love include the words:[4]
life - someone or something for which you would give your life.
care - someone or something about which you care more than yourself.
In common use, care refers to a mental or emotional state of predisposition in which one has an interest or concern for someone or something. To care for someone, may also refer to a disquieted state of mixed uncertainty, apprehension, and responsibility; or a cause for such anxiety. Caring for an object, such as a house, refers to a state of attendant maintenance; or may also refer to a state of charge or supervision, as in under a doctor’s care.
friendship - favoured interpersonal associations or relationships.
union
family - people related via common ancestry.
bond.
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2006-07-30 22:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by vishal 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
True love actually exist in this world but it is very diffcult to find. In our society, ppl are exposed to so much temptation. There are ppl out there who is very good socialising or creating opportunity for themselves.
I agree with you that we may live together with our partners for 20 years or more but still ended up getting divorced.Marriage is not just a piece of paper but it is a long term commitment that we will take care of each other for the rest of our life but sometimes the temptation in our life is too good that we ourself is unable to resist it. Eventually we fall into the temptation trap and leave our love ones but somehow ppl will always regret after they fell for the temptation.
They have realised that the temptation is just only fo that for period of time and when they beg for forgiveness, it is always too late. it happened to human beings regardless it is a lady or a guy.
2006-07-26 11:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember there was a movie by Mel Gibson that he can "hear" what women's talking in their mind. That's an interesting movie.
Most of us does not have that capability, so always be confused with "does she love/like me?". Sometimes women close to you and claim "we were just friends". What a selfish, irresponsible statement!! If you have no intension to be with this guy, then just stay away! Not only woman's, but a man's heart can be broken, too.
Wish there will be a vending machine selling "perfect lover" one day, then all guys may rest in peace by then.
2006-07-26 11:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by It's amazing?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't so panic. You enjoy your life. If someone is nice to you and you like his company then step by step you two cooperate and then you sure know what to do. Don't look at other people. Just be good and a good person will be good to you. Do look so far. Just be happy and careful today.
2006-07-26 11:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Greymatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep
2014-01-19 00:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-27 09:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋