2006-07-26 03:55:18 · 29 answers · asked by Scott y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I don't think that there is necessarily an age limit set in stone that's "too young". However, there does seem to be a very large gap between the two of you. She is just turning into an adult and beginning to experience new things in life. You, on the other hand, are quite experienced in many areas I'd expect, and as a result, this may not work out too well. Also, although she may seem into you know, she probably doesn't know what she wants and this may complicate things more. So I personally feel that taking her out might only draw you two together eventhough you both know it's wrong. Don't take her out, stay friends, and don't begin a relationship with her. Good Luck!
2006-07-26 04:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only go around once in life. Females are more mature than males by many years. Younger men are as worthless as **** on a boar hog as a general rule; which is why we also refer to them as cannon fodder and yaddah. Perhaps she has a desire for somebody who is stable, hard working, unimaginative and dependable who won't go off boozing with idiots and etc. The two of you hve only the two of you to please. You do not have to fit into some mold or framework that is judged by the rest of the world. Have you noticed how the whole world seems sort of screwed up anyway??????
2006-07-26 11:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 is fine. Its a big age gap and i would say anyone younger than 21 is not mature enough to handle it. Ask her out and see where things progress. It may just be a short term thing in which case theres no problem.
2006-07-26 10:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are way too old for a 21 year old girl. Stop already and find someone your own age.
2006-07-26 10:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong as long as she's happy with it. I had a friend who dated a 35 year old man for about a year, she's 18.
She was very happy with him, but he turned around and cheated on her. Bad move on his part.
As long as both of you are okay with the age difference, and get along with each other, then enjoy.
2006-07-26 10:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to shoot for a difference of no more than 10 years. If you go for any more than that then you will be dating someone who is at a different point in her life. She will have different goals and expectations from the relationship and a different level of maturity.
2006-07-26 11:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that is to big of an age gap.. what could you two possibly have in common.. besides it makes you look like a sick ol' man.. I don't know why older men can't find women their own age and maturity level to have a relationship with..
2006-07-26 10:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good age ramge.
How young is too young. Ask a cop
2006-07-26 10:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both really love each other, things should work out. My grandmother died young and my grandfather married a women 25 years younger. they have been happily married for about 20 years
2006-07-26 11:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's legal, then it's fine. Personally, I wouldn't go out with a guy your age, because my own mother is only 1 year older than you, and I'm 22 myself and it'd be weird to go out with someone her age.
2006-07-26 10:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋