Ladies can you answer this for me ?

Question

Why do the women I'm not interested in want me, and the women I'm interested in could care less?
Why do women I'm not interested in get mad when I turn them down when they want sex?
Is it wrong to want the kind of woman you think would be a good mother for your children and be appealing at the same time?
Should I have slept with the women I didn't care for when they wanted sex?
Why do women say they're not intreested in money and dump you when your broke?
Where and how should I go about finding Mrs. Right ?
I not much for drinking and not a party animal!

I work and have a very strong work ethic. I'm a successful body and fender man by trade and I make a lot of money. I'm an inventor, and a patent costs big time, so money can get thin at times. I'm a quiet country life kind of guy, I work at home, like to garden, and watch scifi movies at home with some pop corn. I'm a very strong believer but not a church goer. I've read and know a lot about history and what really happened to and in the world, it ruins church when I speak of what I know. I've had many women say I'm most intelligent man they have ever known. I really stand out, and get everyone's attention. I'm 51-52, look 34-35, 5'11,' 245lbs, heavily muscled, 18" arms, 50" chest, and have BIG legs. I've never had a lasting relationship, I was starting wonder why? None have even lasted a year! I like pretty women, but lushes and nar do wells flock to me, not the Mrs. Right type! I' m baffled!

Answer 1

It seems to be that way with me too. I think your doing the right thing by not sleeping with every women that wants to. When you do find Mrs. Right she will respect you for that. Women get mad because they look at it as a put down on them, don't take it personal they will get over it. A women who supports herself will not dump you if your broke. I can't say where or when you will find Mrs. right but don't give up and don't give in to all the hassle. Trust me you are not going to find Mrs. Right at a bar or a party.

Answer 2

1. Because the women your interested in are waiting for you to make the first move (toward a relationship) or they are looking for something else in a guy and just want to be your friend. The girls that you aren't interested in could very well be what you want if you'd just give them a chance.

2. They get mad at you because it hurt their feelings. They are probably feeling, ugly, fat, and inadequate.

3. No, it is not wrong to want a woman that would be a good mother and be appealing at the same time. But maybe you should lower your standards too. Maybe, you are aiming a bit too high.

4. No, you shouldn't sleep with the women you aren't interested in, that would be leading them on, and then you will end up with psycho stalkers. Plus that would just make you a complete jerk.
(I would have used a stronger word there, but I like to keep things clean.)

5. You are generallizing women on this one, not all women are gold diggers. Not too mention are you sure they dumped you because you were broke or could there be other reasons?

6. If you aren't a party animal and looking for Mrs. Right, try going to Yahoo Singles and look in your local area for girls that have the same interest as you. Also, are you religious? If so, a lot of churches have singles groups.

Answer 3

That's just the way of the world and love. It's always the ones that you DON'T want that show the interest first. See the ones you like, you will have to prove yourself by being persistent. Good luck. In some cases money doesn't count but you at least want someone with a job and some money to take you to the movies or out to dinner. You would not want to date a deadbeat why should a woman want to.

Answer 4

I think that you did a great thing by not sleeping with girls that u did not care for or had ne feeelings for, good for you cause if that was ne other guy they would have jumped at the chance. I think that u should just be yourself and not change for anybody. And its hard to say where you could meet someone, just don't go looking for it cause if you do then you won't find it. One day when ur not even thinking about it u will meet someone and maybe even in a place that u never even thought of. Just go with the flow. Good things come to those who wait!!!

Answer 5

You shouldn't have sex with women you don't want to. What happens if, regardless of precautions, you have a child with her? You would then be tied to someone for the rest of your life. There is nothing wrong with being picky. As for the rest of your question, it sounds like you are trying to meet women in a bar, not a place to find your future Mrs. Try meeting women in other places; store, restaurant / diner / coffee shop, church, local festival or community gathering, etc.

Answer 6

The ladies ur not interested in may be getting some kind of vibe from u, whatever ur putting out is what u get back. And no u shouldn't sleep with someone just because. So maybe u should look at urself in the mirror and find out what the hell is giving off those damned bad vibes.

Answer 7

Maybe the women that you want don't want men like you. Everyone has a preference. You are not interested in women who are interested in you because you probably have a preference in what you want. The women that say no to you probable have a preference too.

Answer 8

i am going to answer all of your questions in the order you wrote them.
that is life. it happens to everyone.
they hate you for being the mature adult
of course not- more men shoulld think about their future children like you do
no- that would have been very bad
they lied to use your money
ask the good Lord to help you. if you go about getting one yourself you are not going to be happy.
i hope i could help you.

Answer 9

haha..got yourself in a fix there buddy..i just think its got something to do with women...we unknowingly always tend to complicate things...every woman dreams of a knight in shininhg armour...i am guilty of it myself..though i often tell myself there ain't no such thing...you just have not found the right one for you...when she comes along you probably be to shocked to feel anything...most of the time she isn't 'your dream woman' but she is the one you would want to spend the rest of your life with..then you will know you have struck gold...cheers buddy

Answer 10

Not a woman, but Thank You for answering my question Superman. I feel better know.