and you havent had sex in a long time?
2006-07-26 03:37:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to think: If she wants to have sex with you rather suddenly, how many OTHER people has she felt the same way about? It's not conclusive proof, but it's evidence that she may be the village bicycle, if you know what I mean. And these days, that's something you don't want to mess with unless you like collecting sexually transmitted diseases.
2006-07-26 03:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex then you shouldn't it's your choice to be in a relationship and you don't have to be in one if you don't like what comes with it. And it doesn't matter if she is pretty or not you should be in a relationship with a girl who has the same interests as you so the both of you can have a good time without worrying about having sex at any time.
2006-07-26 10:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants sex & a relationship, and u don't, then yes, say no to sex. U know that u will just hurt her in the end. Go find a girl who wants what u want, so that way nobody has to get hurt. If u do decide to have sex with her, tell her that u are not looking to be in a relationship. Don't lead her on or lie to her. There are girls out there who just want sex like u do. Go find one of them. There's no point in hurting someone when u don't have to.
2006-07-26 10:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would say no to sex. It's the right thing to do. If you agree to having sex and don't get into a relationship with her, you're misleading her and that's not something that you would like to have happen to you either, right? One time of sex is not worth hurting another person over.
2006-07-26 10:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Apples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a girl that is like this but does not want a relationship, just sex. I have never had sex with her although it would be a fun time. Respect for yourself and others is more rewarding.
Good luck
2006-07-26 10:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would and I have done it. My current gf wanted me to do her one night but I told her no because I wanted her to know I was looking for more than a one night stand with her and sex wasn't the only thing I wanted from her. Call it being stupid or being a gentleman and respecting her - but we have been together for over 2 years and the sex since then has been wonderful.
2006-07-26 10:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by dasani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you didn't want a relationship and she did?
If she wants a relationship, but you don't, then no, you shouldn't.
nah, you've pretty much lost Me, I'm not getting what you are asking for. The only reason I'd say no was if I just didn't like the girl at all.
2006-07-26 10:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See why men don't think. Oh yes, they do with their dick. She's pretty whatever ****...Do you know if she's clean? If she's pretty why didn't she find a man yet? Maybe she did, but the same way she approaches you she approaches about 20 of them and 19 slept with her, because hey...they da man! And dont tell me you gonna use a condom. AIDS is bad, but what about herpes...you get that all these sores around your mouth just by kissing...hell no it's not worth it. You gotta live with that **** for the rest of your life. Go ahead ....we'll see after who da man!
2006-07-26 10:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, ask yourself, do I want to be with a girl who would sleep with me and we have no relationship going on? What kind of girl is she? How many men have she slept with before?
Risking your health is really not worth it, you know? No matter how careful you would be (if you do decide to go for it),
however,
your best bet is to back out and refuse! You would be better off!!!Think first of consequences before you do the action!
2006-07-26 10:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by MissShorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes then i would tell her we made a huge mistake and that we were kidding ourselves if we thought we could make this work. then i would tell her i had some thinking to do and i was confused becuase my heart is saying one thing and my mind another.
then i would leave and call her up once a week for a booty call and tell her i just could not stay away from her. until afterwards when i would rush off for various reasons.
i would keep this up until she figured it out of found a girl i liked
2006-07-26 10:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋