Hello! i hope this question must be interesting. i needed somebody's opinion
2006-07-26 03:37:46 · 11 answers · asked by heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. You are just dealing with the final loss of that relationship. It's natural.
2006-07-26 03:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend recently experienced the same feelings you are.
Tamara's been married to Mike for 1 year now, but before Mike was Ben. Tamara got word 2 months ago that Ben was going to get married. Tamara cried, and was all bent out of shape.
A day later she realized - you always have feelings for a love especially if it was yiour first love or one of the "great loves" of your life. Basically - don't worry about it. No you are not in love with him, if you were you would have done something before about it. Hope this helps..
2006-07-26 03:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex-boyfriend of 5 years got married I was very sad. I began to question why he did not want to marry me. After several chats with friends, I began to not fantasize the relationship by remembering all the good things but began to remember why we broke. I am glad we did not get married for we would have been divorced. By the way, he got divorced 16 months later.
2006-07-26 03:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by bond girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not "in love". That is a natural reaction. It means it is completely and absolutely over between you two, no going back. Tough pill to swallow. Just give it time, it will pass. I felt the same way but I realize it is just sadness that a chapter in your life is closing. You'll be ok.
2006-07-26 03:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends, do you still have feelings for this person? It may just be a sign of jelousy, because shes getting married and your not, or it may be love. If it is love, you need to talk to her about it.
2006-07-26 03:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by hollisterCali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was there too. be happy for him. you can not wallow in self-pity. i did and it consumed all of my time. he is happy now. don't take it personal because what you had together are memories and you can always remember. besides, love is a matter of the heart. you will probably always love him, just because. true love never dies, just redirect your attention to something else you love to do, it helps. i asked myself why me questions for years. i now have a greater respect for him. and yes ,i still love him. -good luck
2006-07-26 03:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. I mean, maybe not a deep love.. but everyone still has a piece of them that will love their past relationships. It's basically just kind of a tie to what you used to have.. but it doesn't necessarily mean that you *love* him, but maybe a part of you is still attatched.
2006-07-26 03:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by usagimoon2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really that you're still in love with him but maybe you did not get over him completely.
The fact that he was once yours and now belongs to someone else... bothers you. That's all!!
It happened to me too!!!
2006-07-26 03:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your atavar is male, I'm assuming you are talking about a gay BF. I hope he is 'marrying' another male. Wish him well and move on.
2006-07-26 03:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably haven't really moved on from ur previous relationship. probably still bitter abt it... it is ok.. relax..
2006-07-26 03:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋