2006-07-26 03:34:11 · 9 answers · asked by shalee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get married! The money problems will always be there and get worse - eventually it will lead to Divorce!
2006-07-26 04:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are probably arguing because there is not enough money right? My girlfriend and I are the same way. I don't want to fight with her, but I need her to see that there are things she needs and things that she wants, and those are unnecessary. I use to be a big spender and spend ton's of money on her, but we bought a house and things definitely change after that. Now that money is an issue, we argue all the time. Our current situation is only temporarily, but I am hoping to make more money. When money is less of an issue, she can have anything she wants.
2006-07-26 03:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Milton.Cogswell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! Who would have ever thought people argue over money???!!! Where have you been living? Money is the number one thing all people argue over. Followed by sex, religion, politics, sports, cars, in-laws, yaddah. You have to set up some type of budget and agree on it. You have to agree on how much each partner has to spend (waste) on themself. How much to save (JOKE). Etc. I have done income tax preparation for 36 years and spend a lot of that time trying to help people understand money ahd how to handle it and why the sky is blue. Go forth and sin some more. Best wishes.
2006-07-26 03:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get married, money will always be an issue. Money is always an issue in any relationship married or not. Its a fact of life just like men wanting sex all the time.
2006-07-26 03:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by laguera4rmks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money issues are one of the most frequent causes of difficulties for all couples. Usually both people have very different history, spending styles, feelings about money. It is very important to have open and honest conversations JUST about Money - being honest about debt you may have - how money "FEELS" to each of you - goals that you have - saver vs. spender, etc.
When I get married again (if); I intend for us to have His, Hers & Ours accounts. We will decide together what the family pays for and what each of us pays for out of our own accounts. This way we are working together for family issues - but have freedom and flexibility for personal issues.
If you can't work through these issues alone - then see a counselor for a few sessions to help you learn the ways to have these kinds of discussions.
2006-07-26 03:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by yonica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never allow money to ruin relationship. I have known a couple where the guy is so poor but he made very effort to earn money.. do you know what happen to him, he is earning 4000 to 5000 amonth , thanks to his wife who never look down on him or argue with him over money matter....
Pardon laguera4rmks, not all guys want sex all the time. it is a incorrect presumption.
2006-07-26 03:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by toysingapore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get married with money matters. i give you 3 years maximum to stay married. i hate to say i told you so
2006-07-26 03:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your like this now what will happen after you get married
2006-07-26 03:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a budgeting class together.
2006-07-26 03:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋