I'm only 21, but I have never met a girl who I considered to be on my wavelength. Not smarter/dumber or better/worse, just different. Also, a freind once told me that I think too much and trust too little to ever be in love. I used to tell my high school girfreind that I loved her, but it was really just what she wanted to hear, not what I really felt. Nowadays, I just date occasionaly basically for entertainment. But am I missing out on something?
2006-07-26 03:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, you are missing out on a whole huge world of things.
First of all, you are just 21. I know that feels like a big deal to you now, but in the long run, it really isn't. Congrats, time seriously speeds up from there.
Second of all, you are just 21, When I was 21 all I had in mind was where I was going to party that weekend and was thanking god if I had a girlfriend.
Relax, Its not a game that ends. Just take each relationship as it comes. one date at a time. If the first date goes well, you'll have a second date, if the second date goes well, you'll have a third and so on and so on.
I see questions like this all the time on here. Stop trying so hard to get into a relationship, just enjoy the people you meet. If its going to work, it'll work.
2006-07-26 03:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 15⤊ 2⤋
Keep dating & having fun. U ain't missin out on nothn but a heart break. Maybe after all that dating u will find ur match. But their's no point in searching for a soulmate because you'll waste so much time searching that u will miss out on some really good times. Don't worry, when u are ready, God will send your soul mate to u. So in the meantime, have fun!
2006-07-26 10:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and finding your soul mate is not impossible at your age but you still must give it time.
You should not look so hard because you need to enjoy life and the people you meet. Some people don't know that they have met their soul mate until after ten or twenty years of marriage. You will know when the time comes for you to know... Remember even if it never happens close to perfect is good too.
2006-07-26 10:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by kat_burk76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't find that special person, you will never feel love. Just keep looking until you find them. That is what I did. Don't settle for less. The marriage or relationship will not work if you are not meant to be together. What your missing out on is your special person. Hang in there. Your still very young and you will find someone special. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life then settle for someone I didn't really care about.
2006-07-26 10:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, I think your looking too hard and not enjoying life in the process. Good things really to happen for those that wait. I have always found that just enjoying being myself, enjoying life around me attracted the people I most wanted to be with. Stop looking and you'll be surprised what lands in your lap.
2006-07-26 10:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle and don't give up. Settling isn't worth it, it just brings heartache in the end. Don't "look" for your soulmate, in time she will be right in front of you. Date for the pleasure of someones company, get to know them for who they are, let them get to know you for who you are, and don't tell someone you love them unless you mean it. You're only 21, you have plenty of time to enjoy your life, enjoy people around you, and concentrate on your career and getting your life financially settled so when you do meet your soulmate, you will have more time to lavish on her. Good Luck and have fun.
2006-07-26 10:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way...
I can't seem to find a guy who is on my level. I've heard the same things....but I don't think you should ever settle.
It's all or nothing. I mean, those silly love songs are out there for a reason, right?
2006-07-26 10:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is so unpredictable it is important not to give up on anything. You have so many more opportunities to meet girls who could potentially be your soul mate.... they seem to appear just when you least expect it.
Good luck!!!
2006-07-26 10:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by bond girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not just date for entertainment. what if u missded your blessing because you were not serious. i suggest that if you want to find love, open your heart to your interest. don't tell her what she wants to hear because you are not being fair to her heart. think about that. don't give up on ove because it comes when you least expect it.
2006-07-26 10:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by missdessie06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't give up, you're young. you just need to go outside and find the right girl. whenever you tell her you love her, you should know if you mean it or not. if you do then hang on to her, if not then give her time to warm up to you
2006-07-26 10:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Colombian nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋