If you meet a woman who is absolutely the coolest...pretty, funny, smart and a blast to be with...when you end up in bed with her, how important is the way she is built? (as long as she's not morbidly obese)...really curious about how much personality can overcome body issues in the bedroom.
2006-07-26 03:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by Sassy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he enjoys spending time with you and likes your personality, I think that is going to define how he sees you physically (in bed and otherwise). I don't think you have to worrry about being unattractive, just remember he already finds you attractive!!!
2006-07-26 03:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Apples 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The personality can overcome quite a bit. Personally if a girl wins me over with her personality, she could be a big girl. It's all the same to me. Of course, finding someone whose morbidly obese with no sel-esteem issues is hard to do where I come from. Issues like that tend to dampen a personality. To answer your question, a considerable amount, it's all about your charisma.
2006-07-26 10:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by vashnok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shouldn't matter. I slept with a good friend of mine that I have known since we were in 6th grade. She was overweight but it didn't matter cause there was a lot of love and respect between us. So body type shouldn't matter, what will happen when you meet someone else who doesn't like you cause your body isn't built a certain way....
2006-07-26 10:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by ERIC W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can be shallow and say i ideally want slim but if all the better parts(not body, parts of who she is) of her are there then they easilly trump flaws. right now i'm married to someone who has nothing i look for in a woman, and none of the personality either.....i.e.. seperation or divorce question asked yesterday !!
2006-07-26 14:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is to the point where she and a man are nude in bed together, she needn't still be worrying about that. He wants her just as she is.
2006-07-26 10:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no bed is not everything. but once in the bed will ask one more time in the bed. os need to be very careful as lots of people misunderstand b/w love and lust
2006-07-26 10:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be in bed until we're married, but since this is hypothetical...
I don't know...if she's got curves then I'd be fine...I don't set much by looks, so I really never cared.
2006-07-26 10:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by snake390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality is key and how she handles herself in bed will seal the deal looks dont mean much after that
2006-07-26 10:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been obsessed with beauty in appearance as much as personality.
2006-07-26 10:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. October 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once in bed not important at all...
maybe before taking her to bed... I would re-consider :)
2006-07-26 10:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Shalako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋