He is loves anal sex and he will only have sex if hes drunk, and he does not try to show me any affection but hugs and kisses.
2006-07-26 03:25:47 · 30 answers · asked by barbwire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when we do have sex and hes not drunk. It not anal and he gets off in like 5 mintues. Thats why I'm so confused
2006-07-26 03:36:27 · update #1
I think that u should just calmy talk to him bout it. Just tell himm how you feel. You are his girlfriend not some W@#$% from the street he should show you affection and treat you with some respect. Not only should he show you affection during sex but all the time ur together. I f he has a problem with this than that means that he doesn't respect you and he just wants a piece. If it doesn't change I thinkk that u should consider leaving him and find someone who will treat you with respect and show you some feelings and emotions... Its hard to find but I'm sure you can find someone better. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-26 03:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend's not gay (which he most likely is) then he has some real big psychological issues he has to confront.
There are two ways to confront this problem
1) Talk to him in a calm tone when he seems to be open for a conversation. Ask him the simple question "Is there anything wrong?"
2) Come straight out and ask him "Are you gay?"
2006-07-26 03:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by vichussmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may very well be gay, you did describe some aspects of a closeted man. Ask him, it will make both of you relieved, if not better for having heard the answer. Neither of you are happy this way. One way or the other your air will be cleared and you can either move on, or have a better understanding of your boyfriend.
2006-07-26 03:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by vashnok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know unless you catch him in the act. you cannot just believe anyone. if he have sex with you, then either he is straight or he is bisexual, definitely not gay. i haven't known a gay guy who loves to **** a girl... yet. if you don't prefer the things he like, i believe the best thing to do is talk to him.
if communication fails, then the question is why are still hanging around with the guy?
2006-07-26 03:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you at all? Could it be for sex only?
Then anal sex is rather safe!
2006-07-26 03:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you having sex stop him and tell him you want to give him a sexy massage right.
then rub his shoulders with your thumb work yout way down.
then when you get down to his butt massge his cheeks. if you feel him more relaxed start thinking. your ultimate thing is after you do that massaging his cheeks. try to put your finger in his ***-if he lets you. you got a gay man
2006-07-26 03:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt mean he is gay. You need to talk to him and figure it out. If he isnt in love with you would be the same thing I think.
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-07-26 03:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him but not blatently wait until he is drunk and force the issue but not to much. if ppl alwys call him gay mabe he is afraid to come out it is hard to tell every1 that u are gay i've been there with my girlfreind
2006-07-26 03:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas Christopher O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is gay, try to find out clues like go through his stuff in his room ( be descreet) , ask other of his friends , that you have a bad feeling he is seeing someone else or that he is losing interest in you, do not mention that you thnk he is gay, No nono..
2006-07-26 03:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by spriege 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant get him to have anything besides anal sex when he's sober, he's gay
2006-07-26 03:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋