You love going down on your girl, but she doenst like it or return the favor.....is this a good enough reason to breakup???
2006-07-26 03:18:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at the responses below that Im getting...I agrre that you have to be sexually compatible. I am not saying this a deal breaker right away, but cmon. Long term, you will end up looking elsewhere and hurt the person anyway, just my 2 cents. And for all you losers calling me a prick and sorts, you are the shallow ones not putting thought into the question. Ignorant people I tell ya
2006-07-26 03:25:16 · update #1
No. Unless you're completely immature and shallow.
That's your call, Bub.
2006-07-26 03:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Three thoughts.
(1) each person gets to decide what the want and don't want in a relationship, if you don't match up then that is a legitimate reason to part.
(2) it is a form of selfish behavior on her part, you can't have a relationship with a selfish person.
(3) a met a lady I really liked but we had the same situation, but she indicated that she had a step-parent that use to force her to do oral when she was a teen and hence she had a real problem with it. (this wasn't a made up excuse it was real) I decided that the other factors I liked about her were more important and continued to see her knowing that this type of activity would NEVER be a part of our lives.
2006-07-26 03:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO- This is taking you own desires and forcing them upon others. In a relationship it is suppose to be about making your partner happy not you. Maybe there is a reason why she does not return the favor. I think you would do this person a favor though by breaking up with them - good reason or not.
2006-07-26 03:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay that is the craziest but i've heard crazier. Talk to her about it and if she still doen't want to tough. Besides u 2 r different people and u shouldn't base ur facts just because u like 2 do it cause eveybody has their own things. Grow up!!!
2006-07-26 03:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I'm behind the times. What does "going down" mean.
And since I have no doubt that it's some form of sexual reference, then no. It's a bad reason and you shouldn't be more concerned about your sexual experiments then your feelings (if you have any) for the girl in question.
2006-07-26 03:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by snake390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You love it and that is your prerogative. If did not want to do it then I am sure you would not like it if she pressured you or dump you because of that. Some people are just not into oral sex, you have to respect her boundaries. I hope sex is not the only reason you are dating her because if it is then go had and dump her because you would doing her a favor.
2006-07-26 03:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very petty self centered excuse to me. Do you enjoy giving cunnilingus to satisfy her? Do you satisfy her and please her because you love her? Then isn't that enough?
If you really do want her to preform fellatio, you should ask her what her thoughts are. Perhaps it is something she will be willing to try, and then again maybe not. Communication is the key.
Dropping her because she won't is in very poor character.
2006-07-26 03:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by BlueFire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that is your full decision yet you should have a full and complete understanding sexually. There has to be chemistry and mutual give and take.
If your not complete sexually and it's bothering you now then that will always be like this!
2006-07-26 03:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by vcaring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That's ridiculous. You do something that you love to do (going down) but if she doesn't love doing it then you can't force her to enjoy it.
However, it does seem that you don't really care about her, just about what she can do for you so perhaps it would be better to break up for that reason.
2006-07-26 03:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of shallow, but if it creates problems, yes. Maybe she doesn't know how. Have a talk with the girl before you pass judgement and toss her.
2006-07-26 03:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why break up with her?!?! ask her if she could return you the favor...you would like that...but that is not a good enough reason to break up...its not good at all. Just ask her if she would...besides there is nothing to be scared about.
2006-07-26 03:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋