I tried to hook me cousin up with one of my guy friends. she a very big girl but she dresses really nice. he a nice musular man but kinda shy just like her. i thought there personalites would be perfect together. they were talking for about three months and they never met. but they talked all the time and she REALLY like him. he lives far away. but he came to see her one day and when he finally saw her he dopped her like a hot potato. now she's pissed at me. i said i was sorry. what can i do to make it right?
2006-07-26 03:13:06 · 13 answers · asked by bluebliss2184 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Match making is always risky business. Did you ask her before you hooked them up? I am not clear on that.
Anyhow…yes, she may be angry with your right now. But believe me, she is really hurting inside and I am sure any self-confidence she had was shattered by his rejection. It is so hard being an overweight woman in this society [I know first hand]. It is possible that he truly liked her, but he may have been immature and did not want to date an overweight women due to being harassed by his friends…..who knows….
Just be there for her and let her know you are sorry. Blood is thicker than water and she is going to come around again it just may take some time.
In the mean time…….don‘t fix up anymore people! ;) ;)
2006-07-26 03:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's your fault. You can not or should not take responsibility for his actions. He behaved badly, and if any friendship is in jeopardy, I hope it would be his and yours. As for your cousin, she's understandably hurt. But if she's mad at you, her anger is clearly mis-directed. I'd give her time to calm down. This kind of rejection is very painful. But it's not your fault.
2006-07-26 10:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Annie's World 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it was not your fault that he dumped her. If you still want to ask for forgivness from you family simply say "SORRY, I wont interfere in others' matters again. I was just trying to make them happy." Your family loves you too much to not to forgive you. Good Luck. I hope this works. God Bless.
2006-07-26 10:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dumbledore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she obviously wasnt honest with him about her appearances. That is not your fault. She shouldnt be mad at you, you made an introduction 3 months ago, what happened after that was up to her and him.
2006-07-26 10:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that it didn't work out is not your fault. No need to beat yourself up.
You can't 'fix' him if he is being a goofus.
She is better off without that kind of 'tude' in her life.
2006-07-26 10:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Puzzler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say... I am a third party in this I just introduced you. You made the choice to like him. Move along hunny!
2006-07-26 10:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by itzakadoozies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only rhing you can do is sicerely apologize to her. She may be hurt now, but eventually she'll realize it is not your fault is your guy friend is more shallow than you thought him to be.
2006-07-26 10:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by greatgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she cools down a bit, and then explain things again.
2006-07-26 10:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Catnipgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. She will get over it but next time, don't hook up your family
2006-07-26 10:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by psycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sorry.....you are not responsible for your friends bad manners. You've already told her you're sorry....she just needs to be reasonable and stop blaming you.
2006-07-26 10:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋