how do u ask a girl out who is playing hard to get?

Question

i have asked her but she says only mates but she acts like she likes me what can i do

Answer 1

Go out with another girl and that will make her jealous. but make sure you make the other girl happy.

Answer 2

If she is playing 'hard to get' game then just move on. Do you really want a girl who toys with your emotions in such a manner? And when you really like a guy you would never pass up an opportunity to go out with them unless you were really stupid or immature (or both).

You're a guy though so you'll never do the sensible thing. I'm guessing you'll hang around being all sweet while she treats you like ****, just waiting until the day she comes to her senses. That day may come or she may just fall in love with a complete looser and use your shoulder to cry on on a regular basis. Meanwhile at this point the girl of your dreams may have come and gone, after getting tired of trying to pull your attention away from little miss hard-to-get.

Your call mate.

Answer 3

sometimes a girl can get real close to a male mate but she doesnt really fancy him like in a boyfriend kind of way. if she says you're just mates then that means she doesnt want a relationship because if she did maybe have a cruch on you she would go out with you. she's not really playing hard to get she just maybe see you as her mate. sucks huh.

Answer 4

If you have done everything you can think of, then accept her answer of only being mates. She probably does like you, but just not 'in that way'. It does happen! You can be good mates with the opposite sex, it doesnt have to lead to romantic/sexual stuff.

I think if she keeps saying this, then you either take her word for it and be mates or you drop it altogether and move on.

Answer 5

deal with it, make the decision in your mind to move ahead.
If she's bluffing, then it's her loss and she may even approach you.
If she's being entirely honest (mates only) then you're doing the right thing. Either way, it's a win-win situation for everyone.

If you persist in chasing, today's gynocentric systems will have you accused of rape in next to no time. You'll have your name plastered throughout the internet & your local areas tabloids & such. That would be a loooooooooose situation! So don't risk it.

Answer 6

call and sms her about once a week or less. stop asking her out, and say to her: "you're right, I'm not actually interested anymore and you'd be a great friend" this will make her think she did something wrong, even though she's not actually interested in you, it's just psychology. you probably can't get her, it's too late. but at least save your dignity!

if you act ENTIRELY disinterested, you may get her. she may say something to see if you're still interested then go back on it, that's just her trying to dominate you again. Don't let that happen!

Answer 7

Did you tell her how you feel? Like, you want to be with her?
If she says she think you as only a friend, than she might mean that. Some girls just gives out wrong messages.
If she really likes you, I think she will text u or call u after you have stopped texting her for a week.
If you REALLY want to be with her, don't look desperate!!

Answer 8

sorry to say but she isn't interested....
she either a genuine nice person n does like ya but not fancy u.....
or she just loving the attention she gets from u!!!!!
Move on maybe in time she Will realise u really r a nice person n av a change of heart.......
or because u not waisting Ur time on her anymore u will meet someone just right for u!!!!!

Answer 9

Have you thought that she's telling you the truth. She may well like you a lot but not fancy you, there's a difference you know. I have had friends who are guys and had a lot of fun with them but stayed as friends.

Answer 10

most girl do that to find out if a boy really like them so make her know u like her