I have severe headaches and Ive never(or hardly) had a chance to do what Ive liked.
Ive been obedient to parents who never cared if I was happy.
Now I have to work it seems.
Thats okay.
I intend to work hard and do an honest job.
But I would be so happy if I had a clear spotless mind and I was playing football.
And if I can play football professionally and then later become a manager, my life would be perfect.
Unfortunately, I do not have the time/ability to destress and relax.
Pressure is again coming from my mother because she says I can not be doing nothing.
When Ive been training hard in the gym and trying to feel the ball on the grass and enjoy myself for once.
I just wish all the stress and chronic tension headache would just leave me and pressure would stop mounting so I can think clearly about how to proceed from here.
How do I do something I would enjoy if the world will not give me a chance?
2006-07-26 03:07:15 · 7 answers · asked by dasalvager 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
just relax
finish ur work fast according to a time table(which u must make)
and keep some time to lay just for 5 min on sofa
2006-07-26 03:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress is your reaction to your world. Work on changing your reaction. Ask yourself this question.
"Has my stressing about this ever changed it or made it better?"
The answer is probably going to be no. Work around the issues in your life. If your mother doesn't want you doing nothing, do something. Try to get a job at a Gym where the perks might include using the equipment. It's also important to stop blaming "the World" for you problems. That wouldn't fly in football. Imagine this line....
"Sorry I didn't catch the ball coach, the world wouldn't give me a chance to practice."
You don't say what your normal day involves except, "I do not have the time/ability to destress and relax."
I'm also confused by the expression, "trying to feel the ball on the grass and enjoy myself for once."
Make a conscious decision to change the way you react to stress. Decide that if it isn't going to change anything you won't worry about it. I call it the sunrise rule....
Nothing you can say or do will stop the sunrise, so worrying about stopping the sunrise is non productive. If the same applies to something happening around you, set the worry aside, set the stress aside. You'll be amazed at how much better you feel.
2006-07-26 10:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you have said are your aspirations & ambitions.In true life, some of them are fulfilled and some remain as a dream!! I appreciate your objective of becoming a footballer but understand that its like lottery-only a few gets that.
Be practical, think of something like learning hard, become a doctor, specialize in sports medicine ! Or become computer wizard, make programs to simulate the football game and become an expert on that etc. etc. The you will have the conviction in your mind and you will forge ahead.Your statement about your parents are totally wrong & biased. Change the attitude. Rather than blaming others for your shortfalls, blame yourself.
Headaches comes when you are always stressed and try to relax. Why dont you practise Yoga?
2006-07-26 10:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to quit football only because you have a job. You can play football in your spare time and on the weekends. And who knows you may get lucky one day and come across someone important who would acknowledge your good spirits for you love of football. Be an optimist and keep your fingers crossed! Don't stress yourself. Think of the less fortunate people then you are.
2006-07-26 10:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by sobia a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to grow up my friend any thing is possible when you put mind body and sole into it .your dreams will come true if you just stick with what you want out of life and work hard for it .but life is not easy so your have to work at it nothing will be just given to you.good luck
2006-07-26 10:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sound of your entry you are under age (thats what im assuming anyway) i would say that you need to talk to a counselor at school or church or a free clinic and they can help you figure out what needs to be done they can also help you talk to your parents about your concerns and pressures anyway good luck
2006-07-26 10:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame it on the world, dammit. Who makes choices for you? If it's someone else, then guess what? YOU need to start making choices for yourself. No one's going to hand you your life on a silver platter. You are the only one who can make the changes you need to make.
Now...leave the pity-party and get to work. The only one who can change you is...YOU.
2006-07-26 10:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋