What to d0, I dont understaand???
2006-07-26 02:43:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i guess she don't knows what she realy wants!!!
2006-07-26 02:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sanja 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's happening to you is basically what's happening to men all over. We're trying to conform to something that we can't possibly conform to: The perfect man!
The tables have turned. Not because women have turned them, but because men have. The the things that influence us (i.e. the media, womens groups, oprah) are telling us bit by bit that being the perfect man is knowing what a woman wants. That's stupid!!
The mood of women change like the wind. Hell, they don't know what they want half of the time. Niether do we. You should just be true to yourself - be the best person you can be in your own eyes.
If you expect your relationship to work, you're going to have listen to your own voice and be courageous enough to follow it. Sometimes you might be wrong, but at least you'll know where you stand. That my friend, in my view, is the PERFECT MAN. Now, go out there and take your balls back.......
2006-07-26 10:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Thanous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you fall in love with someone, you should never try to change them for this reason. She fell in love with who you were, but now that she changed you into what she thought she wanted, she isn't sure. It's her mistake, and your mistake. Never let someone change who you are. If someone loves you, the love who you are no matter what. You don't have to like everything about the person you love, no one ever does. And no one can ever be perfect. Take some time to find out who you are again, and decide if you really want her anymore once you get there. Use this as a learning experience. Remind her there are things about her that you may not like, but do you love her in spite of it?
2006-07-26 09:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to figure out if she changed you or you changed for yourself. I she changed you than you have a problem because women are fickle. Now, if you changed because you felt a need to change than be happy with your changes and move on.
Don't let anyone change you;especially not a woman.
(not putting down women but we have to admit that we don't know what we want all the time)
2006-07-26 09:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by lala<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dump her because she does not love you for the person you are. There will always be something wrong that you need to change i.e."she changed me now she is saying you are not the same." Dump her and find someone who likes you the way you are. You should never have to change who you are to be with someone!
2006-07-26 09:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd ya let her change ya? It's hard to understand/plz us girls, i know! And it's ok to try to understand her, but if you havin' to change yourself for just to plz her and then she doesn't like how you've changed, it is time you sit her down and talk to her!!! Ask her what she wants from you, if it's to much or if she complains ab that then maybe ya'll need some time apart to figure things out!!!
2006-07-26 09:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaj teri bhain de foodi maari.
Baraa mazaa aiyaa.
u r really same Sam as u were earlier but she could not get u.
Tere lan which problem hai.Uh aapni zindagi thodi na kharab karegi.
Gashti ke aandey. thoda ghat lan khichiyan kar.
2006-07-29 04:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER have to change yourself to please someone else in relationship. If she didnt like you for who you are in the beginning and "changed" you, she will never be satisfied with you no matter what you do to try to please her. It`s best to just cut your losses and move on. You need to be with someone who has no desire to change you and likes being with you for who you truly are. Changing for someone never works because you`re not being true to them, or yourself. Good luck with this hun! And remember, just be yourself no matter who doesn`t like or appreciate it. Someone WILL like you for your real self, even if it`s not her. :-)
2006-07-26 10:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes not in love dont dwell on her unless you think shes 100% worth it
2006-07-26 09:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by blahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dont know what she wants. if she is not in love with you anymore, go find someone who will love you for who you are.
2006-07-26 09:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
Tell her that she wanted you to be different. If you are so changeable, just change again I guess.
2006-07-26 09:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋