most guys want a pretty skinny and smart girl I'm not pretty smart or skinny but i am nice but now adays were i live guys don't care about personalitys and it stinks what do i do
2006-07-26 02:40:56 · 35 answers · asked by Virginia R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all not all guys want a girl to be 'skinny & smart' girl.
The guy who is sensible & mature enough would expect a girl to be very romantic , caring & true lover....This relation would last long!
If she's deeply loving guy.....guy is fortunate.
there's no meaning to be with a girl who's 'pretty skinny & smart' but not romantic, loving & polite...That relation lasts only for few months.
The eternal love is all maters for a long term..
All u have to do is enjoy each & every moment of life, it should not depend on any others presence or ansence..
Just relax...enjoy..be grate ful for what u have now.
all u can do is 'wish' and keep on enjoying normal life.
Believe me. if you wish from heart..That wish will certainly come true..
some one has a soul mate in this world..
Either I am also alone..
no gf till date.
I know girls these days are also too materialistic.but some one matching to our thoughts is there some where.
Beware of being with a wrong person..u will regret this!
make sure you be with a right man...U will love him.
Have a nice time,
Cheers!
2006-07-26 03:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by manojsti 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everybody has something that is pretty about them physically. whether it your smile, your eyes or the way you walk. something about you is pretty and believe me being skinny or pretty will not get you a man if you do not have some good personality to go with the look. As far as you not being smart, I don't believe that. You may not be book smart but I am sure you are smart in other ways. you probably know many things other people don't know.
____WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?___ Work on increasing your self-esteem. write little notes to yourself, complementing you everybody, stare in the mirror and say I am great ....I am great..and then I want you to get Maya angelou's poem entitled phenomenal woman and read it until you start believing that you are a phenomenal woman. Then and only then you can start to work on the outside; first get a gym membership and ask one the trainers to help you come up with a workout to accomplish the look you want and be realistic. second, buy some new clothes and get some new make-up; ask the counter girl or guy what do they think is your best feature and how can accentuate it.
2006-07-26 02:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guys for now and concentrate on you. Find a hobby that you become passionate about, or a career that keeps you occupied while you work on an exercise program, just a small one to keep in shape, nothing that is going to pit you in the hospital for a year. Volunteer would be a good place to start, once or twice a week, pick a place and jump right in, you will meet new friends, learn new skills, have a new conversation. Good luck.
2006-07-26 02:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about guys right now. Find things that make you happy. I'm kind of in the same situation but I figure that when I look for a boyfriend I get the wrong ones.
Learn that no matter how you look there is someone that will love every inch of your body regardless of big or small. I have the same problem but I chalk it up to the fact that I am a mother of two and if you can't accept me for me then move on!
2006-07-26 02:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by lala<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your life is so bad, is it because you don't have a boyfriend, or some other reason? Boys aren't the answer to everything. It sounds like you should get a hobby, a goal, or some other purposeful activity. Guys like girls who have a life.
There are ways to improve your intelligence. First of all, act intelligent. You have a level of intelligence that's not being used when you type. Secondly, learn things. Observe your envrionment. You don't have to be a genius or anything! Carrying an intelligent conversation is desirable for both friends and boyfriends.
And whatever you do, don't be artificial. Don't. The guy who likes you for yourself is out there somewhere, don't settle for one who likes a false image of you.
2006-07-26 02:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to like a Pretty skinny girl is governed by the looks. A relation cant go further until it has a bondage.Bondage comes from understanding & not from pretty skin or smartness.If u r nice to others than no doubt u will find someone soon who will ready to give u everything u want.There is a scarcity of persons like u.Be what u r.Dont ever try to change yr identity.U r marvellous as waht i can say.
2006-07-26 02:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by sunil_frn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have such a negative attitude about yourself, you will never find anyone who is interested in you. If you hang your head as you walk down the street, people get different vibes from you than they do from someone who is standing tall with their chest out.
Even if you're ugly, someone somewhere is likely to be into you. It's a corny, cliche line, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've seen some horrendous women with men around their arms. They have a man because they're confident. They may be a bit overconfident, but at least they're not lonely.
2006-07-26 03:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by vichussmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your life sucks because you are single then my life should suck but it doesn't. I guess i am okay looking but the hot chicks not all are attractive they can be beautiful but not attractive. Men don't find looks attractive(maybe some do) but something about the girl would attract them. Like Beyonce she ain't that hot but she can move and has pretty eyes that is what I like of her. But if I have to give you a tip just exercise and keep your body fit and health (in shape not skinny) and the features what you think is attractive (on your body) to you make them stand out..
2006-07-26 02:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by anti_money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you don't need a man to complete your life. they are nothing but trouble anyway. young guys are immature and don't know how to have a committed relationship. i would stay clear of the boys for a while, and who knows you may just stumble upon prince charming. Please, just give it some time. do things you want to do, like take up a hobby or spend time with family. love will jump out at you when you least expect it.
2006-07-26 02:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a boyfriend will NOT change your life. Another person is not responsible for your happiness. You need to build your self-esteem and self-confidence. Being alone can be a great thing!
2006-07-26 02:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋