he is always kiss around me then has sex with me and then go out and all his mates have told me before that he meet a girl and when i asked him about it he said that he didnt but i have caught him txting girls as well and them senting back hey babe and love u cant wait to see u so how do i belive him or his mates help?
2006-07-26 02:24:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
If he's cheating behind your back, turn around and look
2006-07-26 02:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by David B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A sure fire way of knowing is by rummaging through his phone. If it is on silent then thats a giveaway!
Read his texts, that is the number one way of hiding any naughtiness!
If he takes his phone to the loo he is deffo up to no good !
The odd 'just going for a kwik drink with the lads after work is also a sign.
New 'friends' that you dont't know and havent met.
A sudden interest in overtime at work.
Saying that a new colleague is nice, 'but a lesbian' means he fancies her!!
Ask to read his txts or emails, if he's nothing to hide then he will show you straight away, not later on when he has had the chance to delete anything
A different perfume he has started to wear!
Sudden interest in personal grooming!
And the obvious one is in bed, if he's under performing or suddenly has new tricks or asks you to do something you dont usually do, then that may be odd!!
Bin him!!!
2006-07-26 09:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Riky Rooster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The evidence is not in his favour, but they could honestly just be friends - if this is the case he will be OK with you meeting his female friends. Alot of guys get panicy when a realationship starts to get long term. It could be that he is flirting with women to see if "he has still got it" and has no intention of following it through. However you have got to trust your instinct and if he really has cheated you need to stop and consider your future together.
2006-07-26 10:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Richie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is go and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases!! No matter what he says!!! Don't believe him!!! You saw it with your own eyes. Love is blind!! Wake up!! There are too many fish in the sea! Mr. Right is waiting for you, but you will never find him if you keep wasting your time on this loser. You deserve the best!
2006-07-26 09:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have this much worry get shot of him,you are the better person at the end of the day,so is he worth all the stress you have over him,life is short enough start over again with a man you know you can trust ... i do hope you will be happy
2006-07-26 09:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by cute sexy little feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull not to suspect him or acuse him wrongly cos thAt could end your relationship.What you do not see you do not konw,what you do not know you do not talk about.
If you are tired leave.If not ,stick to your man.
But give him this frendly advice AIDS IS REAL!
2006-07-26 09:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by hailmartha212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to fellow him one day, and if hes cheating on you dump him there and then try to male him feel small
It wont be easy
2006-07-26 09:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Miss C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on you know whats going on you just don't want to believe it ,If your putting up with it what do you expect hes male he is going to keep doing it
2006-07-26 09:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by paul2ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try hard to chatch him, sprend alot of time with him, see if anyone unusual calls him, if he gets frustrated and wants to leave quick there may be someone else, the signs are easy to read,,, just hang in there
2006-07-26 09:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that wore the t shirt lost my family in the proccess ,everything you said says to me he,s cheating unless he,s texting his mum he should only say those words to you get shut while you can b4 you regret it like i do gl in your choices
2006-07-26 09:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by macattack634309 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋