2006-07-26 02:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust, respect and love
2006-07-26 02:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people say trust, but its not just trust alone. The fact is that the basis of a good relationship is made of many different aspects. Like compatibility for a good relationship the two must be able to get along, even when disagreeing the two must be able to eventually reach a compromise, compatibility also covers the intellectual side, you both have to have the the same morals and values, you don't have to thnik alike, but on a lot of serious topics, there should be somewhat of the same conclusion. As well there is the factor of attraction (why the person is attracted to you), if someone wants you just for sex or just because you look good, they are not interested in what you have to offer as a person. Also patience, every relation requires an unsurmounting amount of patience when your other does something that you don't agree with or you don't like, you have to keep a steady head because sometimes they will do it anyway, or if something is going on and you know the outcome but your partner seems to be oblivious to the fact but doesn't take it in to consideration that you know what you're talking about a lot of times you have to just let it ride and let them learn for themselves, it can and will happen. As well you should have respect you can't love or even like someone you don't respect. Communication is also a big part of a relationship, you have to be able to express your feelings openly toward each other whether they are good or bad, this is actually the hardest thing in relationships, a lot of times it is easy to tell your bf/gf how much you love them and to hear it said to you, but it is hard to hear your tell things that need to be worked on or any flaws.
2006-07-26 09:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty- you have to be willing to tell your partner the truth no matter how much it might hurt them. You also have to be honest about who you are and not put up a front to make the person like you.
Trust - You have to trust your partner enough to believe that they will be honest with you. This is not a blind-faith sort of thing. Trust has to be earned.
Communication (both verbal and physical) - If you can't communicate your relationship doesn't have a chance. That means being able to listen and being able to talk. More listening than talking.
Compromise - the both of you need to be willing to not get things completely your way all the time. There is no room for a "my way or the highway" attitude in a relationship.
Commitment and Fidelity - You have to be commited to just that person and have ties to no one else on the same level.
Caring - you have to care about eachother enought to be willing to take care of eachother. I once dated someone who wanted "someone to care for not someone to take care of". It didn't last. You have to do both.
Love or a Connection - You have to feel that "tug" pulling the two of you together. There needs to be a little bit of chemistry to have things be interesting in the first place.
Comfort - You have be at ease around eachother. No relationship gets anywhere when one person is worried about how the other sees them. You have to be relaxed enough to be yourself.
Fun - You have to enjoy eachothers company. You have to be able to laugh at your partner when they do something stupid and not have them get mad.
Independence - No relationship works when one person is completely dependant on the other. You have to have a back bone. You have to have the ability to be on your own. A relationship needs to be something born out of choice, not out of necessity.
2006-07-26 09:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From years of good and bad experiences...and if you can share these things it's all good.
Honesty, faithfulness, a great sense of humor, a kind heart, patience, generosity, a sense of purpose in life or life goals, similar values, a good work ethic and wanting what's best for your partner are just a few things.
2006-07-26 09:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION!! If you have a good level of communication, you can earn the trust, be honest and help love grow.
2006-07-26 09:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship, trust and communication
2006-07-26 09:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by R Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and honesty.
2006-07-26 09:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by daisy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs sex and rock and roll wait thats for fun for a relationship it is true love not just lust
2006-07-26 09:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by bik_ko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust
2006-07-26 09:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by chameli/bebo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust, honesty, love & loyalty, and more over it is always be in contact with him.
2006-07-26 09:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by sujay k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋