There is this guy that I have been talking to on and off since nov and we calll each other and on occasions he stops by my job. We haven't talked in about 2 wks. I want to call him,but he knows my number too. So I'm not going to call him. What do you think I should do.
2006-07-26 02:00:50 · 33 answers · asked by readingsingingsleeping 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the other day while I was going back to work from lunch I saw my friend at the stop light and I called him. He was sort of short and acting like he didn't want to talk. He said that I started to call you,but he didn't.So after we talked. I just deleted his number from my phone so I will not be tempted to call him. I guess I wanted more from him than friends and he just wants to be friends.If he calls he calls if not it is his lost.
2006-08-01 02:16:43 · update #1
Don't call him. Maybe this is old fashioned to some, but it works for me. Make HIM chase YOU. Guys love "the chase". I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year, things are very serious now, but in the beginning I never called him even once for the first few months. I never even called him BACK if I was out and he left a message. It drove him nuts and made him chase me. If a guy doesn't chase, he's not all that interested and not worth my time.
Just my opinion. Good luck, whatever you decide.
2006-07-26 02:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call, it's a good thing to stay in touch...I have a particular person who I date from time to time and sometimes I get caught up with other matters and before I know it a week or so has passed without having talked to her and so I get a welcomed call from her just staying in touch...keep the line of communication open...give him a call.
2006-07-26 02:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to call him, call him. He's probably at the other end thinking the same thing. Most guys dont like to seem pushy and needy so they wait for the woman to call, knowing then that they are worth it.
:)
Just call him, the worse that can happen is he is busy.
'Faint heart never won fair maid'
2006-07-26 02:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him or injoy talking to him, CALL HIM. Now a days we can't just wait around for a guy to make a move and some guys like that.
2006-07-26 02:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by kay2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take in consideration what TYPE of relationship you are pursuing with this guy.If you just casual friends, then I would call. No harm. No foul. But, if you have a different understanding, then I would DEFINETLY call!! He may not be alright.
2006-07-26 02:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by mommas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely call him. We only live once and you need to put yourself out there, if you don't you will never know what could have been. You need to be more forward, if you are honest and truthful nothing bad can happen, if he seems nice don't let him pass you by!
2006-07-26 02:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Christian S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah call him as long as you haven't been harassing. There are no "rules" to calling friends, so if your friends(which is most important) then call him. Ask him out for a date on you. Men love confident women.
2006-07-26 02:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't call. I'd leave him to call me. He's probably just busy and caught up in his life. I have had enough experience with men to know that they hate being "henpecked" by women. He may well see a call as henpecking. Just my opinion :)
2006-07-26 02:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe people think too much about what each other thinks (he's probably wondering why your not calling). Call and ask him to call you also, if he does not hes not interested...
2006-07-26 02:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by musixdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU'RE OLD FASHIONED I WOULD SAY NO DON'T CALL. IF YOU ARE A TODAY AND NOW PERSON THEN GO RIGHT AHEAD AND CALL BUT I HEARD THAT MEN USUALLY WAIT 2 TO 3 WEEKS BEFORE THEY CALL A NEW DATE.
2006-07-26 02:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by TECLA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋