He is handsome and a very nice man, and he looks at me when his wife is not watching. He meets me on the road some days and invites me to a cafe for coffee and we chat for hours. when i slipped once he caught me and held me for a long time. i think of him all the while.
have i let down my best friend by flirting with her hubby?
2006-07-26 01:52:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES! That is a really terrible thing to do. I hope she finds out because you are not truly her friend. If you have feelings for him and you were truly her friend, you would not ever be around him when she wasn't there.
2006-07-26 02:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plzz dont bitray ur best on such a worse way by stealing her husband it will hurt her a lot. Wat matters to u more a best frnd whom u know from a really long span of time and whose been with u for almost every good and bad moment pf ur life or her husband whose first choice was ujr best frnd and not u?? who cant understand u how much ur best can?? u call her ur "best friend" which means something really gr8. See a crush does not last forever and even if she is ok with u having a crush on her husband and if her husband marrys u wats the proof that he left her for u and wont leave u for some third girl??? think abt it. Its alwys good to have ur own usband and not anyones else!!!!!
2006-07-26 09:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by rock`n`Zee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women desired married men. It's because they are unavailable and therefore a challenge. If your guy friend left his wife to be with you, then you'd be bored with him in 3 months. It is very common for women to steal men away from other women, but then they become bored. I would say to look for a nice, intelligent SINGLE man. While he may not have the allure of being married which so many women find irresistible, he is available and will treat you right. Leave your friend's husband alone.
2006-07-26 09:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Regularguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are letting your friend down a whole hell of alot. We're not talking about a boyfriend but her husband. You have to be more of a friend to her if not then let her know your feelings because the truth will certainly come to the surface. And you can believe that your friendship will be over. Another thing is to don't think that his feelings are the same unless he has talked to you about them because it can be you're just taking his kindness for something else.
2006-07-26 09:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in your best friends position. Would you want your best friend flirting with YOUR husband?
How much is too much flirting? If you can't say or behave the same way towards her husband if your friend IS IN the room then you shouldn't be doing it at all.
2006-07-26 09:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes any girl would be heart broken if her husband is flirting with someone else especially her best friend. You should talk to him and tell him that you like him but you don't want to hurt your friend.
2006-07-26 08:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by shabana0903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from the married man, i reapeat, walk away from the married man. Or go straight to guilt, do not collect friendship and miss several years of happiness
2006-07-26 08:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont hit on own best friend's husband..just think once how will she feel when she finds out or even better think of you being at her place..what if your best friend flirted with your husband..how would you feel??
2006-07-26 08:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.... do you like your best friend or her husband better? you can't be doing this because it's your BEST FRIEND.. and well, it's not right to flirt with a married man who's married to your FRIEND!!!!!!!!!..................... okay..........
2006-07-26 08:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by livelaughlove<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
2006-07-28 09:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by LP S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋