I've had many relationships, from casual flings to long term live in girlfriends, but I've always gone astray one way or another, yet I never had any problems finding girls.
Now I have genuinely changed, I have cleaned up my act, calmed down alot, got rid of a business that took all my time, moved away from London, I now still have one business but it's involved in charity work, for the first time I'm looking to settle with one special person, but, although I haven't tried too hard, there doesn't seem to be any interest, is it because I've changed or is it a case of what goes around comes around?
2006-07-26 01:46:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah............maybe your looking too hard, just chill out a bit, enjoy what your doing for now...i'm sure you will get what your looking for sooner than later.
2006-07-26 01:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Viv C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking to hard for the "perfect" mate to settle down with, and probably mentally crossing off or not asking out girls, that don't match you ideal.... girls make this mistake too. Any of your old girl friends willing to go out on a friendly date? Might be able to give you some useful advice, and you could use it as a way of apologising for your past errors.... who knows they may friends just perfect for you.
2006-07-26 09:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, women like abuse. They go for the guy who's a jerk because he's more confident, and they think they can change him. How pathetic. Women either have to feel needed (although men don't want to change) or they want someone who's unique. It's really funny because when you're with them and you mistreat them, they want you to clean up your act. If you clean up your act, they don't want to be with you. Men always get the worse end of things. Just wait for the right girl to come along. Trust me, the girls you were with deserve to be mistreated because they were either bimbos or whores. Those are the kind of girls who are attracted to "bad boys". If you want to settle down, you don't want to attract their type.
2006-07-26 08:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by FIONEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool your jets man! Now's your time to find a lady that will appreciate who you are now. You're apparently no longer the "bad boy." Unfortunately, there aren't many younger women that appreciate that.
Keep up the good work and she'll find YOU!
2006-07-26 08:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your looking in the wrong places maybe?
the right person will come along eventually and when they do you will know it and will hopefully be a stand up guy...
well done on changing your ways and actually realising you had a problem in the first place.....
but when the right person comes along, you will know it, in the meantime don;t stress yourself out about it too much
2006-07-26 08:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying mate, youve done it before, its probs that you can do it again! - However women should be treated with the respect they deserve - hope you have learnt your lessons!
2006-07-26 08:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by BRAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there that will know you for who you are now and not for who you were, be patient.
2006-07-26 08:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about karma babe!!!!!!Ive gone out with gits like you...call me.....lol
2006-07-26 08:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what goes around comes around. looks like all that guilt has gotten to you.
2006-07-26 08:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by mother of two beautiful babies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma baby
2006-07-26 08:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by baby ttttttt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋