i always look for faults in them to use to run away.
2006-07-26 01:28:21 · 11 answers · asked by slime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats human nature
2006-07-26 01:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know sometimes, what we really want are the very things we are running from, sometimes once we have got the thing we wanted...it becomes scary and we don't know how to deal with it...so we do the easiest thing, and take cover, sometimes people are afraid of any type of commitment, this is something you have to ask yourself seriously...i know a friend who has attracted nothing but worthless men and as soon as she found one who was serious about her...she ran a mile, and i said to her this is what you always wanted why go in the opposite direction?...and she said she feared he would turn out the same as the others, so instead of giving the relationship a chance to grow...it was killed off without a chance, you mentioned that you fear being in a relationship that is the greatest obstacle for you right now...it's FEAR. good luck.
2006-07-26 01:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you are afraid of getting hurt. You were hurt deeply from one of your previous relationships and obviously that has left a nasty scar. So the best way to overcome this is to get a guy that you are interested in and start off as friends/. That way you are learning to trust slowly and won't be looking for faults anymore. And when you are comfortable with the person move on to the next level. Don't be too hasty to start a relationship just yet as your emotions are pretty unstable. The relationship will be on a rebound basis and it will be superficial. So best of luck amigo and everything of the best.
2006-07-26 01:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing. Most likely you're afraid of being hurt, abandoned, rejected, etc. The only thing you can do is ask yourself why you're so scared? then work on that issue. I recommend staying out of a relationship until you are able to deal with the problem. Good luck!!
2006-07-26 01:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have fear of commitment for fear of getting hurt.To move on and have a normal life and relationship i think u may want to seek counceling to find out why u have this problem.Could be something from your past haunting you even from when u were a child thats subconsciesly making you have that fear of commitment
2006-07-26 01:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with taking your time for the right person. Perhaps you are just not ready to commit at this time but sooner or later you have to take a chance and trust in somebody. You can do it!
2006-07-26 01:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not ready for a serious relationship. So look for people the type of people you can just have a causal relationship with. You will know when you are ready for a serious relationship.
2006-07-26 01:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep look into your past /and or get some counselling on this, there has to be a reason.
2006-07-26 01:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not every person is the same you need to let it lose a bit
2006-07-26 01:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have no commitment to them and maybe shy or imbarresed of your body
2006-07-26 01:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by s_d_wadham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋