one day i was using his laptop to go on my myspace account & as i typed on the search bar, two url's popped up. one was the main homepage of myspace.com & another page was to some girl's myspace site. i clicked the girl's site first & found out that it used to be the girl he liked & was dating for awhile before he met me. i guess things didnt work out between them, because he choose me over her. but anyways, back to her site, i went to the main page of myspace.com to log in, so i could look at her pictures, & i as i typed in my email address on the login bar, a new email address was saved on there. so im thinking my boyfriend has made a new myspace account without telling me. i tried asking him if he made a new one, but he denies it & says he doesnt have time for those online accounts. its bothering me because i feel like he made that account to look at her pictures & maybe he's still attracted or has feelings for her. btw, she moved to another state now. should i still confront him?
2006-07-26 01:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i know its his email for sure, not anyone elses. everytime i check his secret myspace page, the login date is always current, which makes me think he looks at her pictures once or twice a week. it still bothers me though. all i know is, that her page was the only url, (beside the myspace homepage) that came up. so im thinking that shes the only one he's looking at. AND NO i didnt sign on his account. i just saw his email saved there, but i eventually typed in my own login username to look at her pictures.
2006-07-26 01:24:50 · update #1
I definitely think you should confront him about it. If you don't get to the truth, it will eat at you and cause more problems than if you find out the truth. I wouldn't think it was that big of a deal if he only looked once (curiousity). However, if his account was current and he kept looking, I would want to find out what was going on. good luck to you. I hope everything works out for the best.
2006-07-26 02:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should confront him and find out out whose email that is. When you know your mind will be at rest and you can move on with him or find some one else to move on with. In a relationship talking things out is good to do no matter if you get into a fight or not. getting every thing out in the open is better then having it bottled up inside.
2006-07-26 08:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by yoda_0072002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should confront him and let him know that you are not going to be his rebound girlfriend just because he got issues with his ex. You deserve better than that. He obviously have feelings for her because when you confront him he denies it. So tell him that he should be honest with you and that it won't change anything between you guys. But if he persists on denying it then I suggest that you get out of the relationship because then it will be based on lies and it will be superficial. best of luck amigo
2006-07-26 08:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Don't back down talk it out, find out how he feels so you know if you want to say or go. When all is said and done it's up to you. And try to look at it from all sides.
2006-07-26 08:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by KAT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋