it's so easy to meet people you see every day, just wait your blessing will come to you wait for god the internet business is tooo "DANGEROUS" come on before real, love on the net.
2006-07-26 01:07:51 · 25 answers · asked by sugar_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If thats your pic on your 360?..you don,t have to worry!!!...trust me!!
2006-07-26 01:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you are wrong. Not everyone has an easy time meeting people. And if you were ever alone for a long time than you would not say this. Don't assume that your experiences are an exemplification of all other people's lives. It is not correct thinking to imagine that how you live and have lived is how all others do! My friend met his girlfiriend on the Internet and another of my friends is married as he met a woman online. These are REAL love stories.
2006-07-27 12:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my fiancee online, so it worked out for me.
I think the media has pegged it as dangerous, but in the past I have met several people on the Internet and, honestly, if you take regular precautions and get to know the person first, I think it's safe.
You chat with them online first. If you're comfortable with thm, after awhile, progress to phone coversations, then meeting in a public place. You don't give out personal information until you feel safe and ready to do so.
For me, the internet was the best way to meet people because:
1. I don't go to bars or clubs or many of the common hangout places where people meet.
2. I have social anxiety and felt more comfortable meeting people online. (More people have this than you'd suspect.)
3. I love using the computer -- it's fun.
4. Surprisingly, most people tend to be more honest online. They don't hide as much information when they are anonymous. They don't put on a show.
5. When you seek somebody out online, and you haven't met them yet, it's easier to stop contacting them when you decide you don't like them. If you meet somebody in person, it's a lot harder to say, "Go away I'm not interested." Online, you can just stop messenging them.
6. Unlike real dating/meeting, you often get to know the personality before the looks. You don't get a real sense of what they sound like till you talk on the phone. You don't get a real sense of what they look like till you meet them. It's like meeting someone in reverse.
So, anyway, it's not for everybody... but if you keep an open mind, I think meeting people online is fun, adventurous, and (at least in my case) it really worked.
2006-07-26 01:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by TumbleTim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are probably lonely and desperate. It gets hard and frustrating being single and the internet is just another outlet. Some people may see it as being adventurous. Some people may have tried dating people that they meet during their daily lives and have been disappointed repeatedly. Some people have hooked up through the internet and found happiness. Some people have hooked on the internet and found death and evil. It's like rolling dice. You never know what you may get. The internet is also a place where people who have poor social skills can create a fantasy world in which they rule.
2006-07-26 01:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that I didn't think it was a good idea either. However my best friend kind of pushed me into it. At the same time it seems that my now husbands friends were encouraging him to it as well. We were the first to respond to one another and neither of us ever chatted with anyone else. We talked on line for weeks and sent three to four letters a day to one another before we finally sent each other our numbers, then we talked on the phone for weeks before we met in a public place. It was love at first sight. We have been married for four years now and we are as happy today as we were the day we met.
You can find love anywhere. Meeting on line is just another way for folks to have the opportunity to get to know people. Most of us work so much that a social life isn't what it used to be. Live and let love my friend. Much Peace
2006-07-26 01:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not as easy to met people on the street if you are not a people person some people can open up more when they are online chatting as opposed to talking face to face even though it may be dangerous for some it's still good for others so don't judge because it could happen to you and love on the net is just that love on the net if they want more from that person than so be it. i say if it makes you happy do what you do!
2006-07-26 01:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually not very easy for everyone to meet people in thier everyday lives. I know it wasn't for me.
I looked not for love but for companionship and someone who shared my interests. What I found was a wonderful man who I am now married to. We have one daughter and a baby on the way. He is the most incredible person I could have ever hoped to meet and there would have been no way I would have met him if it hadn't been for the internet.
2006-07-26 01:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by gonefornow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's a nice and safe way to meet a potential partner if you know where to look. i've come across this really neat site called webdate*dot*com and the i haven't met any psychos so far. if your'e really afraid, why don't you try it for yourself? get an account at webdate_dot_com. you can look me up there and i'd introduce you to the nice guys i've met.
2006-07-26 02:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It works for some... but better to go to a dating service who screen people and are responsible. Don't do this 'cold canvass'... it's a pit out there and a lot of predators
2006-07-26 01:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Tom Van Dyke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the Rejection will be less hurm than real life
But i don't Recommand searching for it in Fantasy World
2006-07-26 01:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by .^.^.^.D.^.^.^. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because for somepeople its not easy to meet new people in real life. on the net..every thing is easy.
2006-07-26 01:14:22 · answer #11 · answered by Milonguero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋