i was with a woman until about 4 weeks ago. Finished with her as i thought things weren't going anywhere and we were more like friends. She said she felt the same. Since then we slept together a week later, but then just over a week ago she started going out with someone who she has known for a quite a while. I feel like I've made a mistake and now miss her like mad!! I'm very jealous.
Any ideas as to what I can do to get her back?? Though she didn't want to talk about us at the weekend and said I was hassling her! I haven't spoken to her since sat and really want her back. Help!
2006-07-26 01:01:49 · 6 answers · asked by lovelost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks yummymummy72, i know this, been here before with a long term girlfriend, but didn't want to let this one go!
2006-07-26 01:09:05 · update #1
your comments make so much sense, i forgot what to think and having someone remind me is very helpful. cheers guys.
2006-07-26 01:13:14 · update #2
i don't think i made the relationship clear. I was with her for almost a year, but it does feel as if she's on a rebound. I sent her an email explaining how i was a fool for leaving her, still love her and she'd asked before if i'd move in with her when i'd sold my house, i had put off answering cos i wanted to sell my house then say yes, i'll live with you, but she hasn't replied to the email or even mentioned it so i think thats that. i know i can get over this just a shame to put in ground work, mess it up myself and find it difficult to stop thinking about what if....i know its too late, but i was scared to admit my true feelings.
2006-07-26 02:26:43 · update #3
anyone fancy a drink with me:)
2006-07-26 02:27:01 · update #4
Sorry but you just have to accept it's over, she has told you how she feels and has obviously moved on.
It's natural to feel a pang of jealousy when a partner mets someone else, but you were the one who finished and you seem fairly clear as to the reasons why. Try to remember why it wasn't working, find new things to occupy your time and leave your ex to get on with her life..
Sorry if that's harsh, but life is as simple as you make it!!!
2006-07-26 01:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well isnt it an awful pity you didnt realise the extent of what you felt for her BEFORE you dumped her!!!! Or are you just jealous - and mistaking this for a wanton lust!!?
Well babes - YOU did all the dumping - so its up to you to do all the crawling now! If shes accusing her of hassling her, then Id write down everything you feel for her and how much you miss her etc etc and pop it in her letterbox - or alternatively get a florist to attach your letter to 2 dozen roses!
Chances are shes going out with a guy on the rebound.
If she doesnt want to get back with you after a grand gesture like the above - then move on and learn to think before you act in future relationships! Good luck
2006-07-26 08:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if to me, sorry, but you obviously didnt mean much to this girl. She has hoeish tendencys and i think you would be able to do better. she has told you she wants to be your friend, she then sleeps with you, and then says your hassling her when you try and confront her about it. I say you were a bootycall and she dont know wot she wants. She is a bi*ch for playing with your emotions, so dont give her ego any more of a boost and go on like you got what you wanted and thats it. If she does come back to you, give her the cold sholder. it might be immature but so what, she hurt you. But forget the feelings you think you might have for her, she will only fu*k you up and take you for a fool, she is obviously that kinda girl. go be single or find someone who you cant sleep with within a month, then you know you gota good girl, gudluck xx
2006-07-26 08:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man this gal dint love you in the first place.I think she made love to you just to test the waters may be thinking something would be different from what she gets always.Get on man and find love where youre apprecieted or else youll end up being used by her as stress releaser for she knows that any time she will get it from you.
2006-07-26 08:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Micheal O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. She's not the only one. There are many women worth loving. Don't waste your time. If she doesn't love you, she doesn't. End of the story. Move on with your life.
2006-07-26 08:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah... feel the pain my friend... feel the pain.... and go through it to the other side... go out, enjoy the single life again and start over with someone else when you find the right person.
2006-07-26 08:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋