I've fallen in love wit my best pal (male), & before he got married to someone else, he confessed tht he luvd me & during tht time, v both did naughty stuff, as in oral etc but never the real intercourse bcuz we were'nt officially married. He got married a few months ago, but he isnt happy with his wife, & he still says he loves me. he calls me up occasionally wen his wife is not at home & talks abt how unhappy he is wit her. the reason he did'nt get married to me wuz bcuz i'm still in college. he lives with his wife & works in a different country after his recent migration. His wife is pregnant now... what shud i do to get him off my mind? i keep on tinkin lustily abt him & how it wud b if i wuz his wife & not otherwise. plzzz help me... wht do i do?
2006-07-26 00:32:12 · 10 answers · asked by Nas T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sure loved her enough to get her pregnant. Let it go, he is married. If not having sex (which oral is) without being married is important to you, then you should know that what you are doing now is wrong. You are helping him to cheat on his wife emotionally. That is not fair to her. It is also not fair to him or to you. He needs to figure out his marriage without you in the picture. He is having a child, are you comfortable with possibly destroying a family? You don't sound like a bad person. If you have to ask if it's wrong, you know the answer.
2006-07-26 00:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Robb 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is two timing and enjoying both the worlds. Time you stop seeing him and do not believe a word of what he says. If he is sincere he would have married you in the first place.
By the way, I am also married and what help you need. Pun intended.
2006-07-26 00:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he's stringing you along. It's always fun to add a little spice to a marriage by engaging in some dangerous activities, and it looks like this guy is doing pretty well from the sounds of it! You seem like a really terrific girl and I hate to see you get hurt, but this can only end in pain. Bail out of this situation while you can salvage some of your heart. Stay strong and good luck!
2006-07-26 01:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe him. When he is not happy with his wife, how he made her pregnant? Now, he wants to use you for his sex in the absence of his wife and nothing else. As you cannot marry him now, you can remain a mistress to him. Be prepared to face the consequences.
2006-07-26 00:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually B. You pass a rumor and you compose song. The analogy is doing some thing to a minimum of a few thing else. You cant be triumphant a loss. A loss would be triumphant sure, yet then the capitalized words could additionally ought to be switched.
2016-10-08 08:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really love u.......he will never get marry with someone else....& now his wife is pregnant as well.....so,do u think without love.....will his wife get pregnant? forget about him....life must go on...past is past...let it go.....
2006-07-26 00:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear please Stop it now.... it is not good. He is liar he is happy with her otherwise how he bare her? I as per you she conceive mean to say he is also satisfy with her?? well dear you are younger now please concentrate your study and forget all the things. change your cellular # please.... run away from him. as a girl i gave you this suggestion. well don't believe on him. married man always do so...... god will help you. take care
2006-07-26 00:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by SaYa_Seno16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number.
2006-07-26 00:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about another man
2006-07-26 02:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by rah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best to leave this relationship
2006-07-26 00:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋