she had querries that i don work like that guy or this type of boys.. she compares with me to other guys s lot..
2006-07-26 00:30:57 · 25 answers · asked by tiger_agra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You start compare her with other girl like big big big-------------things etc etcetc!!!!!!!!!She will feel shy to open her big mouth next time !!!!!!!!!Tit for tat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 00:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has the problems (not you) such as insecurity or other severe complexes. She may of had certain expectations put onto her as she was growing up & now unconciously she expects the same from you.
Or maybe she likes to be the one wearing the pants in the house & likes to control others.
One has to ask why does someone who suppose to love you always compares you to others? Does she love you?
I think you need to have a deep & meaningful conversation with her & try to get to the root of the problem. Why should you waste your life trying to please someone or seems to have no respect for you feelings, self-esteem, emotions etc?
Maybe you could easily find areas in her life to criticise? But again two wrongs wont make it right?
2006-07-26 07:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bail dude! Nothing is worse than having some nag that compares you to every other guy she's ever seen. You need someone that appreciates being with you. There's tastier fish in the sea! I wish you well and hope you find someone that makes this relationship seem like yesterday's news.
2006-07-26 08:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it is always the other way around. Do not worry and start concentrating on the next one. This is the only way to be successful with females. The more you go closer to them they move far. The more you ignore them, they will cling to you like a leach. Just try and good luck.
2006-07-26 07:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, always comparing someone means your not getting who is infront of you and have some issues with intimacy...if you are not x\y\z I can't love you? Or somehow if you don't do x\y\z you are going to hurt me..blah blah blah. Ask her to accept you for who you are and if she can't, get a gf. that will be happy with who you are work and all.
2006-07-26 07:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a time bomb man. Find a way to move on. If she's doing it to you then she's going to do it to any other guy. If she were focused on you and her relationship with you (that's assuming she's mature) then she's help you understand what you can do to make her feel more comfortable WITHOUT bringing in others to the conversation. Good luck!
-T
2006-07-26 07:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my fren.. sorry to tell u, but she obviously doesnt like u as much.. if she doesnt like u for who you are, what else does she want... the moment she starts comparing you with other guys out there, then things can go real bad from there...
2006-07-26 08:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Nighteyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, her majo prob is her feelin of insecurity... she comes across or converses to boys who r moe financially sound, & hence is tryin to make u realize that she xpects moe outta u... so that she wud b able to lift up her head wit pride among the other boyz, that YOU r her guy, who is able to giv her all the love & material possessions she wud need to b happy...
b practical, if ur willin to c her happy, knw that LOVE is not the only thing that is required to survive in this big bad world... & being a MALE ... she only wants YOU to b the one to protect her from being insecure...
so go in & show her all wht u've got... !! gud luck! :)
2006-07-26 07:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nas T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is alway's un-happy with you,neither of you's connect in a way that you want so guess you should move on before you get hurt
2006-07-26 07:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by s_d_wadham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not be worried about her requirements rather be simplified and develop up ur deficiencies on the basis of straight forwardness and build up confidence in u that u r right guy, handsome and capable.Let her free in her ideas & views and be free your self also.She will pursue u.
2006-07-26 07:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First think about your faults and if you don't find any then ask her not to criticise you or compare with others.
2006-07-26 07:40:28 · answer #11 · answered by balu_ukpan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋